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		<title>By: Musk</title>
		<link>http://www.365gay.com/opinion/neff-religion-and-prop-8/comment-page-2/#comment-31483</link>
		<dc:creator>Musk</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 20 Nov 2008 21:30:25 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Years ago, I let a couple of cute Mormon missionaries  into my house be cause they were  . . . cute.  I told them my story and they told me theirs.  At that moment there seemed to be a whole lot of respect floating around the living room.  I told them I would be happy to attend one their services, but only if I could stand in front of the congregation and tell them I was gay.  They told me that they would talk to their superior and get back to me.  Strangely, a week later, they knocked on my door again.  After I let them in, they told me that what I wanted wasn&#039;t going to happen, and they were told not to go back to my place, after the 2nd visit.  I was surprised that they even came back for a 2nd visit.  Anyway, I felt like these two gentlemen were quite open with me, that is, until a higher up intervened.  I figured that the higher up knew that if I announced to the congregation that I was gay, the people in the pews would start snarling at me.  Anyway, my plan was figured out, the boys were cute, and all in all, I enjoyed talking to them.  Oh, and btw, waiting for religion to finally see the light when it comes to acknowledging their own bigotry and fairy tales is a dumb idea.   They know what brings in the money and they&#039;ll stop at nothing to protect that cash cow.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Years ago, I let a couple of cute Mormon missionaries  into my house be cause they were  . . . cute.  I told them my story and they told me theirs.  At that moment there seemed to be a whole lot of respect floating around the living room.  I told them I would be happy to attend one their services, but only if I could stand in front of the congregation and tell them I was gay.  They told me that they would talk to their superior and get back to me.  Strangely, a week later, they knocked on my door again.  After I let them in, they told me that what I wanted wasn&#8217;t going to happen, and they were told not to go back to my place, after the 2nd visit.  I was surprised that they even came back for a 2nd visit.  Anyway, I felt like these two gentlemen were quite open with me, that is, until a higher up intervened.  I figured that the higher up knew that if I announced to the congregation that I was gay, the people in the pews would start snarling at me.  Anyway, my plan was figured out, the boys were cute, and all in all, I enjoyed talking to them.  Oh, and btw, waiting for religion to finally see the light when it comes to acknowledging their own bigotry and fairy tales is a dumb idea.   They know what brings in the money and they&#8217;ll stop at nothing to protect that cash cow.</p>
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		<title>By: Donielle Hould</title>
		<link>http://www.365gay.com/opinion/neff-religion-and-prop-8/comment-page-2/#comment-31344</link>
		<dc:creator>Donielle Hould</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 20 Nov 2008 08:42:28 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Over the years I have seen a lot of chatter over the policies of The Catholic and Mormon Churches relative to The Gay Agenda, but very little over Islams Brutal treatment of Gays, Lesbians and Non-Muslims.  

Indeed the only out spoken critic of Islams anti Gay agenda is Irshrad Manji, and thats only because she&#039;s a member of our community herself. Rome and SLC may not support our agendas, but they are also the very first to denounce violence against us. You do not punish one sinful act by committing an even worse sinful act. 

Yes The Latter Day Saints shelled out a lot of money to support Proposition 8, but we also shelled out a lot of money to oppose Proposition 8. We have made a lot of progress over the years. 

In The 80&#039;s when I was just a struggling Drag Queen (at BYU non the less) I never honestly thought that we would have been accepted in society as much as we are today. It was my honest opinion that the Gay Agenda was where the majority of people would draw the line. I was wrong! So the same sex marraige issue suffered a set back?!?! Respect the vote! and try again in 2009</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Over the years I have seen a lot of chatter over the policies of The Catholic and Mormon Churches relative to The Gay Agenda, but very little over Islams Brutal treatment of Gays, Lesbians and Non-Muslims.  </p>
<p>Indeed the only out spoken critic of Islams anti Gay agenda is Irshrad Manji, and thats only because she&#8217;s a member of our community herself. Rome and SLC may not support our agendas, but they are also the very first to denounce violence against us. You do not punish one sinful act by committing an even worse sinful act. </p>
<p>Yes The Latter Day Saints shelled out a lot of money to support Proposition 8, but we also shelled out a lot of money to oppose Proposition 8. We have made a lot of progress over the years. </p>
<p>In The 80&#8242;s when I was just a struggling Drag Queen (at BYU non the less) I never honestly thought that we would have been accepted in society as much as we are today. It was my honest opinion that the Gay Agenda was where the majority of people would draw the line. I was wrong! So the same sex marraige issue suffered a set back?!?! Respect the vote! and try again in 2009</p>
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		<title>By: Art Carroll</title>
		<link>http://www.365gay.com/opinion/neff-religion-and-prop-8/comment-page-2/#comment-31218</link>
		<dc:creator>Art Carroll</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 19 Nov 2008 20:11:41 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>To Dave W .....

Amen! LOL Well said ... my sentiments exactly ... where do I sign up? I&#039;ll let ya into my tent if you let me into yours ... LOL

 I can&#039;t wait for the next pair of rosy cheeked, squeaky clean, Mormon missionaries to show up at my door, with their starched magic undies
and a satchel of pamphlets .... are they in for a surprise! 

I usually tell them to go away, that I&#039;m busy getting a blowjob from my boyfriend ..... but I think it might be more entertaining to invite them in for a discussion about Gay Marriage, and the embroidery on their magic undies.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>To Dave W &#8230;..</p>
<p>Amen! LOL Well said &#8230; my sentiments exactly &#8230; where do I sign up? I&#8217;ll let ya into my tent if you let me into yours &#8230; LOL</p>
<p> I can&#8217;t wait for the next pair of rosy cheeked, squeaky clean, Mormon missionaries to show up at my door, with their starched magic undies<br />
and a satchel of pamphlets &#8230;. are they in for a surprise! </p>
<p>I usually tell them to go away, that I&#8217;m busy getting a blowjob from my boyfriend &#8230;.. but I think it might be more entertaining to invite them in for a discussion about Gay Marriage, and the embroidery on their magic undies.</p>
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		<title>By: Dave W</title>
		<link>http://www.365gay.com/opinion/neff-religion-and-prop-8/comment-page-2/#comment-31212</link>
		<dc:creator>Dave W</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 19 Nov 2008 19:39:10 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I know, I know:  broken record but I must say this again:  appeasing religion will get us nowhere.  The &quot;tolerating&quot; religions are with us?????????  I am NOT to be tolerated, what an insult!

They are with us out of some strange egalitarianism that says &quot;god&quot; must have created us, so we can&#039;t hate them even if they are icky.

Please.  this is so stupid.  STOP pandering to religion.  We DO NOT need to speak out from the choir, we need to LEAVE the entire church.

Gay catholics, gay mormons, gay any sect, how do you sleep at night?  You choose to join a CULT that hates you and wants you DEAD.

And this goes for the members of the few small churches that accept us.  Episcopals?  I was raised in that tradition.  Archibishop of Canterbury Williams is a joke to that fair minded tradition.  He doesn&#039;t have the spine to stop some of the most hateful bigotry being perpetuated in his very own communion.

GIVE IT UP.  There is no god and appeasing the delusional is just simply delusional.

I&#039;m fighting religion for other reasons but it fits nicely into my equality goals.

We must work to take away their tax exemption.  We must make them pay property taxes.....the establishment clause clearly says that is illegal...I have to subsidize the church across the street in the form of a higher mill rate due to the value of that church not being on the tax rolls.  I PAY FOR RELIGION.  How does that make constitutional muster?

If any of you reading this are remotely religious, I urge you to go see a doctor.  Tell him you are delusional and need help.  Tell him you believe in fairy tales, tell him you follow a cult that wants you to hate yourself simply to get into heaven, a place totally within your imagination.  You will then get the help you need and come back to join our movement rationally.

There is no room for irrational people in my increasingly smaller tent.  I simply will not let a person talk to me about delusional things without pointing out how wacky they are.

I mean really, have you actually read what they believe?  Arks, virgin births, floating into the sky, burning bushes and all that?  Can you really believe it?

One more time:  appeasing those that hate you and who are delusional will get us nowhere!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I know, I know:  broken record but I must say this again:  appeasing religion will get us nowhere.  The &#8220;tolerating&#8221; religions are with us?????????  I am NOT to be tolerated, what an insult!</p>
<p>They are with us out of some strange egalitarianism that says &#8220;god&#8221; must have created us, so we can&#8217;t hate them even if they are icky.</p>
<p>Please.  this is so stupid.  STOP pandering to religion.  We DO NOT need to speak out from the choir, we need to LEAVE the entire church.</p>
<p>Gay catholics, gay mormons, gay any sect, how do you sleep at night?  You choose to join a CULT that hates you and wants you DEAD.</p>
<p>And this goes for the members of the few small churches that accept us.  Episcopals?  I was raised in that tradition.  Archibishop of Canterbury Williams is a joke to that fair minded tradition.  He doesn&#8217;t have the spine to stop some of the most hateful bigotry being perpetuated in his very own communion.</p>
<p>GIVE IT UP.  There is no god and appeasing the delusional is just simply delusional.</p>
<p>I&#8217;m fighting religion for other reasons but it fits nicely into my equality goals.</p>
<p>We must work to take away their tax exemption.  We must make them pay property taxes&#8230;..the establishment clause clearly says that is illegal&#8230;I have to subsidize the church across the street in the form of a higher mill rate due to the value of that church not being on the tax rolls.  I PAY FOR RELIGION.  How does that make constitutional muster?</p>
<p>If any of you reading this are remotely religious, I urge you to go see a doctor.  Tell him you are delusional and need help.  Tell him you believe in fairy tales, tell him you follow a cult that wants you to hate yourself simply to get into heaven, a place totally within your imagination.  You will then get the help you need and come back to join our movement rationally.</p>
<p>There is no room for irrational people in my increasingly smaller tent.  I simply will not let a person talk to me about delusional things without pointing out how wacky they are.</p>
<p>I mean really, have you actually read what they believe?  Arks, virgin births, floating into the sky, burning bushes and all that?  Can you really believe it?</p>
<p>One more time:  appeasing those that hate you and who are delusional will get us nowhere!</p>
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		<title>By: James Boyd</title>
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		<dc:creator>James Boyd</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 19 Nov 2008 01:45:06 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Chad:  You are damn right I am bitter.  Should we all not be bitter??  It annoys me how my heterosexual friends continue to marry without a second thought to us and our relationships.  My partner and I  have never once received an anniversary card or anything like it.  Yet, we continue to attend those weddings, send those cards, and adopt their babies.  
So, I guess I am bitter.  I am bitter because I know (I am 57) that I will never see our equality in my lifetime.  That is sad for me and does make me bitter.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Chad:  You are damn right I am bitter.  Should we all not be bitter??  It annoys me how my heterosexual friends continue to marry without a second thought to us and our relationships.  My partner and I  have never once received an anniversary card or anything like it.  Yet, we continue to attend those weddings, send those cards, and adopt their babies.<br />
So, I guess I am bitter.  I am bitter because I know (I am 57) that I will never see our equality in my lifetime.  That is sad for me and does make me bitter.</p>
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		<title>By: AR</title>
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		<dc:creator>AR</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 18 Nov 2008 06:20:19 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Scott:  I like your point.  Have you seen &quot;Religulous&quot;?  I think you would enjoy it.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Scott:  I like your point.  Have you seen &#8220;Religulous&#8221;?  I think you would enjoy it.</p>
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		<title>By: Scott</title>
		<link>http://www.365gay.com/opinion/neff-religion-and-prop-8/comment-page-1/#comment-30863</link>
		<dc:creator>Scott</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 18 Nov 2008 05:42:54 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>As science progresses, religious people are beginning to look more and more foolish, so the are fighting back and/or burying themselves more in their stupidity. Seriously, what makes more sense: a) things change slowly over time b) a virgin gave birth to someone who came back from the dead then they both flew off into the sky together. Sadly, more Americans believe it&#039;s B than A.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>As science progresses, religious people are beginning to look more and more foolish, so the are fighting back and/or burying themselves more in their stupidity. Seriously, what makes more sense: a) things change slowly over time b) a virgin gave birth to someone who came back from the dead then they both flew off into the sky together. Sadly, more Americans believe it&#8217;s B than A.</p>
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		<title>By: Religious Extremists</title>
		<link>http://www.365gay.com/opinion/neff-religion-and-prop-8/comment-page-1/#comment-30862</link>
		<dc:creator>Religious Extremists</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 18 Nov 2008 05:29:32 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Just read a disturbing story about Sharia law in Somalia.  The law dragged a screaming 13 year old girl into a soccer stadium and in front of 1000 people they buried her in sand up to her neck and stoned her head until she died.  Why did they do this?
Because she had been raped by 3 men and was therefore FOUND GUILTY of adultery and sentenced according to a barbarous, religious judicial code.  (The men were not prosecuted.)

So what&#039;s this have to do with Prop 8?
Let&#039;s not wait to figure that out until the sand reaches our chins!  The difference between this and how some US churches treat gays is one of degree, not of intent.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Just read a disturbing story about Sharia law in Somalia.  The law dragged a screaming 13 year old girl into a soccer stadium and in front of 1000 people they buried her in sand up to her neck and stoned her head until she died.  Why did they do this?<br />
Because she had been raped by 3 men and was therefore FOUND GUILTY of adultery and sentenced according to a barbarous, religious judicial code.  (The men were not prosecuted.)</p>
<p>So what&#8217;s this have to do with Prop 8?<br />
Let&#8217;s not wait to figure that out until the sand reaches our chins!  The difference between this and how some US churches treat gays is one of degree, not of intent.</p>
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		<title>By: Mercedes</title>
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		<dc:creator>Mercedes</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 18 Nov 2008 04:45:29 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>This time things are different. I have never seen such a great number of protestors and many coming out of the closet for the first time in their lives to pick up and sign and ask for any kind of right for being gay. It is amazing. Also, it changes the political landscape in regards to calculations made by officials when determining whether or not to lend their support. Today, is a new day!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>This time things are different. I have never seen such a great number of protestors and many coming out of the closet for the first time in their lives to pick up and sign and ask for any kind of right for being gay. It is amazing. Also, it changes the political landscape in regards to calculations made by officials when determining whether or not to lend their support. Today, is a new day!</p>
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		<title>By: Randy</title>
		<link>http://www.365gay.com/opinion/neff-religion-and-prop-8/comment-page-1/#comment-30836</link>
		<dc:creator>Randy</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 18 Nov 2008 03:48:48 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Two points.

(1) We have the nonbelievers (generally) and that is a growing group of citizens.  They are at times in worse trouble than we are, because their belief that there isn&#039;t a supernatural power to believe in isn&#039;t protected the same as religious belief, and that is inherently unfair.  We ought to be supporting them so their ideas can compete on a level playing field with believers, because that will ultimately benefit us.

(2) We do have the religions, just not the biggest ones.  Gay marriage and gay rights has become an issue of encoding the religious views of certain majority religions into law, at the expense of others.  Many gays and lesbians are believers, and the point should be made that their religious viewpoints on gay issues are as valid and protected as any others.  While gay rights are relatively new, religious rights are not, and this argument will win.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Two points.</p>
<p>(1) We have the nonbelievers (generally) and that is a growing group of citizens.  They are at times in worse trouble than we are, because their belief that there isn&#8217;t a supernatural power to believe in isn&#8217;t protected the same as religious belief, and that is inherently unfair.  We ought to be supporting them so their ideas can compete on a level playing field with believers, because that will ultimately benefit us.</p>
<p>(2) We do have the religions, just not the biggest ones.  Gay marriage and gay rights has become an issue of encoding the religious views of certain majority religions into law, at the expense of others.  Many gays and lesbians are believers, and the point should be made that their religious viewpoints on gay issues are as valid and protected as any others.  While gay rights are relatively new, religious rights are not, and this argument will win.</p>
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