November 22nd, 2009
 

365 Gay: Opinion

Neff: Come march for equal rights on Oct. 11

, columnist, 365gay.com

Thirty years ago our community marched on Washington to demand equal rights.

Again in 1987, 1993 and 2000 we marched on Washington to demand equal rights.

The themes changed. The routes changed. The organizers changed. The speaker lists changed. The celebrity lineup changed. The priorities changed. The vocabulary changed. The heroes and the enemies changed — for the most part. And even the symbols changed.

But with four marches and hundreds of thousands of citizen activists there was one constant demand — a demand for equal rights.

Now, on Oct. 11, our community again will march on Washington to demand equal rights. Participants in National Equality March will celebrate the strides over three decades, the leaps in 30 years. We certainly are not marching from the same place we were in 1979.

But marchers also will make known that their governments treat them as second-class citizens and that they are challenging unconstitutional laws and questioning unacceptable policies for our military, our workplaces, our schools and our families.

You might hear arguments that the march being planned will divert resources from the fights in the states.

I remember hearing similar arguments nine years ago and perhaps even repeated them before I arrived to the National Mall April 30, 2000, to be wowed by the crowd for the fourth march.

The argument of limited resources is deeply flawed.

We, as a movement and community, have not begun to tap our full potential. How can anyone seriously claim that if a person goes to Washington for a weekend in October that he or she is spent out and has nothing left to give a state gay rights organization or a local GLBT center?

I would argue the opposite.

Marches energize some, radicalize others and connect many to people and organizations and campaigns and causes. I would guess that few returned home from D.C. in 2000, 1993, 1987 or 1979 drained and tapped out.

For all the feuding, fussing and misdirected focus on celebrity and flash, the 2000 march helped drive a community through eight long, hard years of painful losses and tremendous victories.

In 1993, marchers left for home committed to meet the challenge issued by Urvashi Vaid, former director of the National Gay and Lesbian Task Force. “We have got to match the power of the Christian supremacists, member for member, vote for vote, dollar for dollar,” Vaid had said. “I challenge each of you to not just buy a T-shirt, but to get involved in your movement. Get involved. Volunteer. Volunteer. Every local organization in this country needs you. Every clinic. Every hotline. Every youth program needs you, needs your time and your love.”

The 1987 march, which introduced America to the AIDS Memorial Quilt and included the first mass marriage protest at the Internal Revenue Service, helped build a national coalition for civil rights. The Rev. Jesse Jackson Jr., told marchers, “Let’s find a common ground of humanity.… We share the desire for life, liberty, the pursuit of happiness, equal protection under the law. Let’s not dwell on distinctions.”

And the 1979 march — inspired by Harvey Milk who famously said “Rights are not won on paper. They are won only by those who make their voices heard” — moved so many to carry on through a decade of so much personal and community loss and hardship.

And, on Oct. 12, marchers will return to their hometowns, their home states, the districts and territories, powered to campaign for the demand made on Oct. 11.

The march will be the forum for issuing the demand for equal rights. The demand will not be won that day, but in the days that follow, with our community nourished for the fight.


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  • Rick Bertz Said: September 3rd, 2009 at 3:56 pm
    • I want to go, but as a substitute teacher, our work has been cut back so much that I cannot afford it, even with free housing. I tried to raise money by hosting a party and asking everyone to bring $$$ for my trip, but I am definitely not a fundraiser because the party was great, but only raised the $$$ that I had paid for refreshments.

  • Jess_in_PA Said: August 31st, 2009 at 5:24 pm
    • This will be the first DC march I’m attending. See you all there. :)

  • Joey in CT Said: August 25th, 2009 at 12:01 pm
    • You know, why is it that I have not seen any publications for this? I am organizing large groups for travel and lodgings at the abilityto get discounted rates, but it has proven to be a difficult task as many people I speak to haven’t even heard about this.

      This needs to be publicized. We need big support. We only have 1.5 months and I have a tiny group. Not the number I was looking for. We need numbers down there. EVERYONE should go. If you bitch about “we can’t get married” or you’re effected by some of the 1,000+ rights we don’t get…GO! You can’t sit there and complain and piss and moan about what we don’t have and not do anything about it. GO. There are people in every state who are working together to make this trip accessible to most everyone. GO! We need you there, we need numbers. Help us fight and finish this fight thats been going on longer then I’ve been alive.

      The time for change is NOW Mr. Obama.

      GLBTQ Community – You can’t expect action with in-action.

      For me – My rights aren’t up to a majority vote.

      Folks in CT, MA, RI…JOIN ME. Let’s go!!!!

      jd8503@hotmail.com

      See you all there!

  • Gerry Fisher Said: August 25th, 2009 at 7:51 am
    • I attended in ‘87 (got arrested on steps of the Supreme Court to protest Bowers v. Hardwick) and ‘93.

      Am I the only one that who thinks, “For what practical PURPOSE?!” in regard to this march? It just doesn’t feel compelling or politically effective to me.

      Having said that, I realize that I may be old. I also realize that others may need this march more than I do. So, I will wish you all well on that day! GO for it!

      And to the person tho tells me I *must* do *something* on that day–geez, girlfriend, dramatic much?–I live my politics every day as an openly gay man. I’m politically active in regard to many issues and in many ways. I don’t see why that day should be any different for me. That’s part of the problem with these marches…I think we need to move away from “everyone do this really big dramatic gesture that’s limited in its effectiveness for one day” and move toward living your politics daily.

  • Genia Stevens Said: August 25th, 2009 at 3:39 am
    • What a breath of fresh air. FINALLY a prominent voice in the LGBTQ community who’s not afraid to support the march. I was starting to wonder if certain LGBTQ groups owned the gay media! I will be there. I can’t wait to see so many other gay rights activists there – and actually DOING something.

  • Wayne M. Said: August 24th, 2009 at 7:16 pm
    • While not everyone can get to the march, everyone can do something on that day. Every LGBT person must set aside October 11th as a day of action for LGBT equality. Choose what you will do, but do something.

  • yodafriend Said: August 24th, 2009 at 2:25 pm
    • I live in Jacksonville, Florida. I have never been to a march before, but I believe it’s time for me to share my voice with like minded people. I’ve never been to D.C., and have no clue where to go. I will be traveling on a bus out of Jacksonville, can anyone help me with directions? I am on Social Security, so my funds are limited. How do I get to the march off of the bus? Thanks

  • Draigh Lunara Said: August 24th, 2009 at 1:25 pm
    • My husband and I will be there. We were there in 2000 for the group wedding ceremony. I actually helped with the sign language at that event. I can tell you that I am looking forward to seeing so many Gay, Lesbian, Bisexual and Transgendered people in one place. I think they fight us gathering for marches and parades because, as a wise Luna Lovegood from Harry Potter says, “If you are alone, you are not much of a threat.”
      I have to agree and would encourage you to come out and support something that absolutely is a civil right for us.
      May Goddess Bless Those Who Learn and Grow!
      Blessed Be,
      Rev. Draigh Lunara

  • mike ashlock Said: August 24th, 2009 at 1:13 pm
    • Neff, glad to hear you calling for the March. Because it is going to happen we need the voices of more of our “leaders” speaking up in favor of the march. The 79 March was amazing. I’d worked against the Briggs Initative and lived in California when Milk was assassinated. I got “married” on the steps of the Supreme Court in a mass wedding of gay and lesbian couples at a march on DC in the 80s. Seeing and being in the amazing diversity of our community in huge numbers is certainly empowering. See you there.

  • Pati Di Said: August 24th, 2009 at 1:09 pm
    • I’m going…and bringing the kids too!

  • Lenworth O'neal Poyser Said: August 24th, 2009 at 12:25 pm
    • Thats what I’m talking about. See you thee.

 
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