I woke up April 1. Rubbed my eyes. Fed the cats. Started the coffee. Checked the news on my laptop.

I read a report of a statement from more than 1,000 retired military officers opposed to repealing “don’t ask, don’t tell.” The statement said allowing gays to serve openly in the Armed Forces “would undermine recruiting and retention, impact leadership at all levels, have adverse effects on the willingness of parents who lend their sons and daughters to military service, and eventually break the All-Volunteer Force.”

Am I still dreaming? I thought.

They seriously think allowing gays to serve openly in the military will break the all-volunteer force?

Britain must be doomed.

I read more news.

A 365gay.com headline announced, “eHarmony now loves gay people. Really,” and the story informed me that a November 2008 court settlement paved the way for eHarmony to come out — literally – with a website to match gays and lesbians.

Maybe, I thought, I read too fast in my morning haze, maybe it’s not enough simply to smell the coffee brewing. Perhaps I missed the sentence that stated that the adamantly hetero eHarmony, with its Compatible Partners site, intends to help gay men partner with lesbians, sort of an ex-gay, reparative therapy online dating service.

I looked more closely at the date on the page.

At the date in the corner of my MacBook desktop.

At the date on my cellphone.

Aha.

April Fool’s Day.

I laughed.

Got me.

Ha, ha.

But the news on April 1 turned out to be news — the truth be stranger than fiction or April Fool’s Day pranks.

More than 1,000 retired military officers really did sign an absurd statement implying that if gays and lesbians could come out in the U.S. Armed Forces, mothers and fathers would not let their sons or daughters go into the Army, Air Force, Navy, Marines or Coast Guard.

Of course, the signature-collecting campaign is just another empty effort by the Center for Military Readiness to stir right-wing opposition to repealing “don’t ask, don’t tell.” The center is getting locked and loaded for the battle in Congress and with the Obama Administration. In the process, the Michigan-based group made fools of some career, high-ranking officers.

And yes, matchmaker eHarmony really is offering an alternative site for gays and lesbians looking for romance, with the first 10,000 people to register to get free memberships.

Of course, eHarmony’s relationship with the gay community is not exactly characterized as blissful — no love at first sight. Compatible Partners is the product of a lawsuit, not a lovefest.

A gay man denied the services of eHarmony, founded by born-again Christian Dr. Neil Clark Warren and closely connected in its early years with the anti-gay Focus on the Family and James Dobson, lodged a complaint with the New Jersey Attorney General’s Office. The NJAG found probable cause for the complaint to go forward. The matchmaking service settled, agreeing to create Compatible Partners, a “gay dating service for relationship-minded gay and lesbian singles.”

The dating service, as spelled out in the terms of agreement at compatiblepartners.net, is not available to married people, or those involved in civil unions or domestic partnerships.

Will Compatible Partners successfully pair gays?

The website contains a warning: “The Company’s patented Compatibility Matching System was developed on the basis of research involving married heterosexual couples. The company has not conducted similar research on same-sex relationships.”

But who knows, maybe a Chuck and a Joe or a Sara and an Amy will find the happiness that Brent and Laura — engaged last September after meeting through eHarmony — found, or the joy that Paul and Stephanie — engaged last October after meeting through eHarmony — found.

To the singles who test the system: Do kiss, do tell. And I hope the joke is not on you.