Wanda Sykes Comes Out at Prop. 8 Rally

Comedian and actress Wanda Sykes officially came out this weekend, announcing to the estimated crowd of 1,000 gathered in Las Vegas at one of the many rallies for gay rights taking place around the country on Saturday that she’s gay, and that she legally married her wife in California on Oct. 25.
Sykes (who divorced her husband of seven years in 1998), has spoken out about gay rights issues many times in the past, recently participated in a campaign to fight anti-gay slurs, and has openly referred to her wife in some of her stand-up routines.But she has always declined to specifically discuss her sexual orientation publicly — until now.
“I don’t really talk about my sexual orientation," she told the crowd at the Las Vegas GLBT Community Center. "I didn’t feel like I had to. I was just living my life, not necessarily in the closet, but I was living my life."
"Everybody that knows me personally, they know I’m gay. But that’s the way people should be able to live their lives.”
But the passage of Proposition 8, she told them, spurred her decision to officially come out. “ We took a huge leap forward and then got dragged 12 feet back. I felt like I was being attacked, personally attacked — our community was attacked."
“Now, I gotta get in their face," she continued. "I’m proud to be a woman. I’m proud to be a black woman, and I’m proud to be gay.”
Sykes joins WNBA player Sheryl Swoopes as one of the few high-profile black women in America who have publicly come out as a lesbian or bisexual woman.
Just before the Nov. 4 election, Sykes talked about homophobia within the black community on The Ellen DeGeneres Show, acknowledging there are differences between the black civil rights movement and the gay civil rights movement, but saying, "discrimination is discrimination, and of all people, black people should know about discrimination."
Currently co-starring with Julia Louis-Dreyfus in the CBS comedy The New Adventures of Old Christine, Sykes — along with Jasika Nicole on the Fox sci-fi drama Fringe, and Kristen Vangsness on the CBS crime drama Criminal Minds — is one of the few out actresses currently playing a leading or supporting role on primetime broadcast television.
She and her wife are among the 18,000 gay and lesbian couples who married during the four months same-sex marriage was legal in California, including many lesbian couples in the entertainment industry.
Sykes said in her speech that she believes passing Proposition 8 will ultimately backfire on those who are against gay marriage.
"They pissed off the wrong group of people," she told the crowd. "They have galvanized a community. We are so together now and we all want the same thing and we shouldn’t have to settle for less. Instead of having gay marriage in California, no, we’re gonna have gay marriage across the country."
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I’ve always loved Wanda Sykes, but I love her even more, now that she’s part of my family.
Kudos to Wanda! Welcome to the “family”. We are family! As of today, the gay “closet” has officially had its door taken off of its hinges!
I knew she was gay! Is anyone surprised?
Dang…now that’s a blessing and a gift! I’m happy for her and her wife, I’m happy for her in so many ways, and I’m even more grateful for her coming forward now. It shouldn’t be anybody’s business, but it is what it is. She has the courage to be public, and I’m not gonna say that’s an easy path for a gay black woman. That’s raw strength.
I just clapped and shouted out loud in my apartment! Thanks, Wanda. Your public voice makes me proud!
You can watch video of a portion of her comments at http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ilYcrig6hyo
Wow, I had no idea. That’s awesome!And shes right, they did piss off the wrong people. Stay focused and organised and soon all LGBT people will have the rights they deserve in America.
Wanda was on an Atlantis (gay cruise) this past January with her girlfriend, now wife and she was very open on the ship about their relationship. However, after the cruise I did a search and found that she wasn’t out publicly until now. We all need to come out now to show people what gay looks like. It’s not some faceless Dick and Bob somewhere else. People need to see the personal stories and see what they do affects others.
right on sister! we love you.
The point is she came out publicly and that is important. I love her closing statement:
“They pissed off the wrong group of people,” she told the crowd. “They have galvanized a community. We are so together now and we all want the same thing and we shouldn’t have to settle for less. Instead of having gay marriage in California, no, we’re gonna have gay marriage across the country.”
I could not agree more!!!
you go Wanda!!! always loved you and now even MORE!!!!
WANDA-LOVE YA, BABE,,,,,, AND THANKS FOR YOUR SUPPORT !!!!!ANYONE ELSE WANNA COME OUT???
What a truly wonderful and blessed day to see the mighty come out with the meek, and to hear one small voice become a throng of humanity declaring “NO MORE”. NO MORE to inequality, NO MORE to discrimination, NO MORE to hate crimes, NO MORE to religion and it’s messages of hate! Throughout the annals of history, gay and lesbian people have been, and always will be a part of the human fabric. Gay and Lesbian people, along with their families and loved ones have arisen and will continue to rise up as once voice, united towards equality rights for each and every man, woman and child. Thank you Wanda for standing up and being counted!
I had NO idea. I’ve always loved her and thought she was funny as hell, and so very COOL, but never did I think she was gay! How wonderful!! YAY! Thank you, Wanda!
I’m a gay man and I’ve always loved Wanda Sykes. Now I just wish I were twins so I could love her more!