November 23rd, 2009
 

365 Gay: News

Report from Maine: With a week to go, gay marriage hangs in the balance

, Keen News Service

(Hallowell, Maine) Tuesday. In a narrow, windowless office with dark walls in the basement of a building on the banks of Maine’s Kennebec River, about a dozen men and women –both chipper and observant— listen as Trina Olson reviews the morning lesson: “Don’t try to respond to everything…smile…tell your story…it’s your credentialing.”

Olson’s gestures conveyed a sense of urgency. She points, she underscores, she emphasizes what “you” have to do and what “we” have to do.

In just a few short days, the goal for this office, the Central Maine office of the “No on 1” campaign, will be to dial up 4,390 people and knock on 17,211 doors. They are specific numbers that somebody has calculated are necessary to get out the “No” vote in this area on November 3.

 

National Gay and Lesbian Task Force organizer Trina Olson heads up the "No on 1" campaign office in central Maine.  Photo by Lisa Keen    © 2009 Keen News Service

National Gay and Lesbian Task Force organizer Trina Olson heads up the "No on 1" campaign office in central Maine. Photo by Lisa Keen © 2009 Keen News Service

 

 

That’s when Maine will vote on Question 1: Do you want to reject the new law that lets same-sex couples marry and allows individuals and religious groups to refuse to perform these marriages?

After the review session is over and everyone disburses to other parts of the headquarters, a woman in her sixties comes to the door of one of the smaller offices –one with a window, but it’s a gray day.

She says she someone at the office called to recruit her as a volunteer. “I told him, ‘I don’t think I’m on your side,’” she tells the several volunteers gathered there. There’s a subtle but distinct drop to silence in the room.

Jacob McClain, a 28-year-old waiter from Cleveland, Ohio, looks up at her earnestly. He was due to go back to Ohio last weekend, but decided to stay to the end.

This is his first time working on a campaign but watching the loss of Proposition 8 hit him really hard. He doesn’t want to wake up November 4 this year and think “what else could I have done.”

“I’m doing all I can,” he says.

He’s been put in charge of making sure that the Central office has at least 900 volunteer shifts filled with real people during the course of the campaign. He stares at the woman in the doorway and puts his hand to his forehead. Then, he reaches in her direction.

“But then you realized you were on our side,” he said, apparently remembering her story from having been told it by the volunteer who initially recruited her. “That’s right,” she says, as chatter in the room resumes.

The ballot choice in Maine is confusing, as it often has been on this issue in other states: Vote YES if you’re against gay marriage; vote NO if you are for it. This woman is for it. She wants to keep the law that the legislature just passed this year, allowing same-sex couples to obtain marriage licenses the same as straight couples.

She and her husband, who live in a nearby conservative town, have  relatives who are gay and believe people have a right to have their relationships respected and to have their privacy.

Another volunteer, Mary McKeen, a native of Maine of similar age, also married to a man and also from a small conservative town nearby, escorts her to a desk to give her a task. Mary is voting “No on 1,” too.

Her husband had written a letter to the editor of a paper, noting that the same arguments used against gay marriage now were arguments he heard in the 1960s when a friend of his, who was black, married to a white woman.

History, of course, is often prologue. And there’s some history to look to on gay-related ballot measures in Maine to underscore what the polls have been saying: Next Tuesday’s vote will be excruciatingly close.

On the past four gay-related ballot measures in Maine, the pro-gay side has won twice, and lost twice. Of the state’s 16 counties, five have consistently voted against gay equal rights and five have consistently voted for it. The remaining six counties have mixed records.

Those six counties with mixed records are next week’s wild cards, and they are likely to cast about 30 percent of the votes, either way.

 

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  • Christopher A Emery Said: October 29th, 2009 at 12:39 pm
    • ah yes ive often thought of moving to canada when i get older but id just prefer gay marriage here in florida, ive already asked my boyfriend (previously my friend for 4 years, now were together) to mary me, so the day it becomes legal (in florida), you know what im doing!

  • audlindal Said: October 29th, 2009 at 7:13 am
    • jaxxy: thanks for your note but it’s not that simple. We’ve tried to move to Canada, but couldn’t get in. You fill out a questionaire, score points based on your education etc., and then wait to hear back.
      I’m a teacher and my partner is a jailer. Based on our questionairre, Canada didn’t want us. If I could, I’d move there in a heartbeat.

  • Jaxxy Said: October 28th, 2009 at 5:18 pm
    • I can’t even begin to imagine the burn in people’s stomach as neighbours decide on your basic human rights. If they all decide you are not fit to marry the lass or lad you love come move here to canada,,,, and get a job with the Ontario government while you are at it,,,,we love diversity!! I wish every American living in an oppressive state would move here and add to our gay and lesbian (et al) population,,,,the more the merrier I always say,,, on a serious note,,, i am truly sorry my Maine brothers and sisters find decency in this vote.

  • 00HaveAniceDay00 Said: October 28th, 2009 at 4:40 pm
 
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