Movement under way in California to ban divorce
12.01.2009 8:41am EST
(Sacramento, Calif.) Til death do us part? The vow would really hold true in California if a Sacramento Web designer gets his way.
In a movement that seems ripped from the pages of Comedy Channel writers, John Marcotte wants to put a measure on the ballot next year to ban divorce in California.The effort is meant to be a satirical statement after California voters outlawed gay marriage in 2008, largely on the argument that a ban is needed to protect the sanctity of traditional marriage. If that’s the case, then Marcotte reasons voters should have no problem banning divorce.
“Since California has decided to protect traditional marriage, I think it would be hypocritical of us not to sacrifice some of our own rights to protect traditional marriage even more,” the 38-year-old married father of two said.
Marcotte said he has collected dozens of signatures, including one from his wife of seven years. The initiative’s Facebook fans have swelled to more than 11,000. Volunteers that include gay activists and members of a local comedy troupe have signed on to help.
Marcotte is looking into whether he can gather signatures online, as proponents are doing for another proposed 2010 initiative to repeal the gay marriage ban. But the odds are stacked against a campaign funded primarily by the sale of $12 T-shirts featuring bride and groom stick figures chained at the wrists.
Marcotte needs 694,354 valid signatures by March 22, a high hurdle in a state where the typical petition drive costs millions of dollars. Even if his proposed constitutional amendment made next year’s ballot, it’s not clear how voters would react.
Nationwide, about half of all marriages end in divorce.
Not surprisingly, Marcotte’s campaign to make divorce in California illegal has divided those involved in last year’s campaign for and against Proposition 8.
As much as everyone would like to see fewer divorces, making it illegal would be “impractical,” said Ron Prentice, the executive director of the California Family Council who led a coalition of religious and conservative groups to qualify Proposition 8.
No other state bans divorce, and only a few countries, including the Philippines and Malta, do. The Roman Catholic Church also prohibits divorce but allows annulments. The California proposal would amend the state constitution to eliminate the ability of married couples to get divorced while allowing married couples to seek an annulment.
Prentice said proponents of traditional marriage only seek to strengthen the one man-one woman union.
“That’s where our intention begins and ends,” he said.
Jeffrey Taylor, a spokesman for Restore Equality 2010, a coalition of same-sex marriage activists seeking to repeal Proposition 8, said the coalition supports Marcotte’s message but has no plans to join forces with him.
“We find it quite hilarious,” Taylor said of the initiative.
Marcotte, who runs the comedy site BadMouth.net in his spare time, said he has received support from across the political spectrum. In addition to encouragement from gay marriage advocates, he has been interviewed by American Family Association, a Mississippi-based organization that contributed to last year’s Yes on 8 campaign.
He was mentioned by Keith Olbermann on MSNBC’s “Countdown” during his “World’s Best Persons” segment for giving supporters of Proposition 8 their “comeuppance in California.”
Marcotte, who is Catholic and voted against Proposition 8, views himself as an accidental activist. A registered Democrat, he led a “ban divorce” rally recently at the state Capitol in Sacramento to launch his effort and was pleasantly surprised at the turnout. About 50 people showed up, some holding signs that read, “You too can vote to take away civil rights from someone.”
Marcotte stopped dozens of people during another signature drive in downtown Sacramento. Among them was Ryan Platt, 32, who said he signed the petition in support of his lesbian sister, even though he thinks it would be overturned if voters approved it.
“Even if by some miracle this did pass, it would never stand up to the federal government,” Platt said. “And if it did, there’s something really wrong with America.”
Other petition signers said they were motivated by a sincere interest to preserve marriages. One was Ervin Hulton, a 47-year-old dishwasher who said he believes in making it harder for couples to separate.
“The way I feel, why go out and spend all these tons of money for marriage, the photography and all that? And along down the line, it’s going to shatter,” said Hulton, who is single.
The U.S. divorce rate is 47.9 percent, according to data provided by the National Center for Health Statistics reports. That figure, however, does not include California, Georgia, Hawaii, Indiana, Louisiana and Minnesota because those six states no longer report their divorce rates to the center.
California stopped because of budget problems, said Ralph Montano, a spokesman for the California Department of Public Health.
While most people would not support banning divorce, it does make sense for couples to be educated about the financial and emotional commitments of marriage, said Dan Couvrette, chief executive and publisher of Toronto-based Divorce Magazine. The publication has a circulation of 140,000, including a regional edition in Southern California.
“It’s a worthwhile conversation to have,” said Couvrette, who started the magazine in 1996 after going through his own divorce. “I don’t think it’s just a frivolous thought.”





I will be intestesting to see what the conservative christian groups do, regarding supporting or panning this movement. I expect they want it both ways, deny us rights yet not want their’s modified. There is still annulment for people who are the victim of adultery and abuse.
I LOVE IT! I have said for years that we should pass laws that ban divorce. These religious fanatics that claim sanctity of marriage, family values and protecting children should really be 100% for this ballot initiative unless of course they are……hypocrites!
Of course, let’s ask that person who has used up four minutes and fifty nine seconds of her five minutes of fame, Sarah Palin, if she would support this measure. After all, she doesn’t even approve of abortion in the case of incest so surely she doesn’t believe in divorce either!
Maybe Sallie Kern can weigh in on the subject too! What about all the Republicans in Congress? Many of them voiced opinion on Prop 8. Let’s ask them too!
“Even if by some miracle this did pass, it would never stand up to the federal government,” Platt said. “And if it did, there’s something really wrong with America.”
35 states have passed amendments outlawing marriage equality. The very act of putting people’s right to equal treatment up for popular vote is so un-American that I’d say we can safely state that despite whatever happens with this effort, there is definately something wrong with America…
Does anybody else feel as though we’re backtracking?
Oh, yeah! Let’s ban divorce! And on top of it, retroactively cancel every single divorce after the amendment has passed!
Clearly no Christian could argue with this!
Jesus said (Luke 16:18) “Anyone who divorces his wife and marries another woman commits adultery, and the man who marries a divorced woman commits adultery.”
And that would violate one of the Ten Commandments!
If I lived in California, I would not sign this petition. I think people should be allowed to divorce, but that wily old misogynist Paul said well if you have to get divorced don’t get remarried.
So we should allow people to divorce but they can’t marry someone else as long as the original spouse is still alive.
And none of this fiction of annulments. Why would any good Christian be willing to state that their God made a mistake by sanctioning this marriage in one of His houses?
Those of you responding to this seriously/taking offense to it:
“The effort is meant to be a satirical statement after California voters outlawed gay marriage in 2008″
The people that launched this ‘campaign’ don’t ACTUALLY want divorce banned. They’re making a point.
I think it’s hilarious and something most of us have been talking about/suggesting for a long time.
I think it’s a great idea. Maybe something like this passing will cause California to dump it’s citizen initiative process.
RobertinWestbury I believe it’s only 32 not quite 35 states. don’t scare me like that man. I already feel hated enough and to top it off religious leaders are completely happy with us being murdered too? Sometimes i wonder how they would feel if a bunch of homos crashed a straight bar and killed everybody if somehow we would be more wrong than them for how they have and still do treat us. I’m not like that myself but I do try to take a walk in there shoes and somehow that ends up being my thought process if i were the enemy of me.
however i do feel that a problem with actually banning divorce say this actually works because nobody really likes divorce is that we would be stomping on a women’s rights victory.
I’m glad everyone’s being honest, that this is to get people to put their minds where their mouths are regarding what “protecting marriage” means. But more importantly, to get people from both sides of the gay marriage issue to agree that marriage is in a far worse state already, than anything they can imagine gay couples could do to it.
Haha!Genius!
Why not go further, outlaw all sexual acts that will not lead to pregnancy, outlaw birth control and pre-marital sex and no sex during a pregnancy? Wouldn’t that protect marriage and encourage more births, 10% of whom will be LGBT! LOL
The Author Mike
This is classic. Love it. I’d definitely sign this petition and campaign for it using all of the materials that the religious/political groups used to “protect marriage”. No better protection than this…