July 4th, 2009
 

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Lesbian parent case heads to Montana Supreme Court


(Helena, Montana) A Montana woman is asking the state Supreme Court to overturn a lower court ruling that gave visitation and other parental rights to her former partner.

Earlier this week, District Judge Ed McLean ruled that Michelle Kulstad must be recognized as a co-parent to the two children she raised together with Barbara Maniaci. He granted Kulstad time with her children and ordered that Kulstad have joint decision-making authority for matters significantly affecting the children, including their “education, activities, health care and spiritual upbringing.”

Kulstad and Maniaci, both of the Missoula area, ended their relationship in 2006. Maniaci, as the “legally adoptive” parent claimed that Kulstad had no custodial rights to their children, that she should not be granted visitation rights, and that she was a “legal stranger” to the children.

The court rejected those arguments and ruled that it was in the best interest of the children for their parent-child relationship with Kulstad to continue, finding that Kulstad was a parent to the children and that the children had a constitutional right to have that relationship continue.

“To discriminate further against Ms. Kulstad because of her sexual preference in this day and age is no different than telling a person to go to the back of the bus because of her skin color,” District Judge Ed McLean wrote.

McLean noted in his 48-page ruling that Kulstad provided for the children and raised them with Maniaci, and the children recognized her as a parent.

Maniaci, who said she is no longer gay and is married argued through her lawyer that she is a “fit, natural parent,” and that she is being “prevented from raising her children with her husband in the way they see fit.”

Mancini is represented by the conservative Alliance Defense Fund which has a long history of fighting LGBT civil rights.

ADF attorney Austin R. Nimocks claims the case has “absolutely nothing to do” with Kulstad’s sexuality.

“If Miss Kulstad was a man, we would still be in the case and making the same arguments,” he told The Associated Press. “Are we going to start granting ex-boyfriends and ex-girlfriends parental rights just because they lived under same roof? If so, how far do we go? Granting acquaintances and roommates parental rights over the objections of fit parents is a very dangerous precedent.”

Kulstad’s attorney, Susan Ridgeway, disputes Nimock’s assertion.

“She’s the second parent of these children; she’s not the fifth boyfriend of the parent,” she said of Kulstad’s relationship with Maniaci and the children.

The Montana Supreme Court has not indicated if it will hear the appeal.


Comments (6)
  • Step Said: October 4th, 2008 at 1:23 pm
    • I love that judge but OMFG what does the plantiff mean she is no longer gay? It’s not a frickin light switch sweetheart.

  • Bri Said: October 4th, 2008 at 9:30 pm
    • I love that ADF argument! “She’s the “ex boyfriend”" oh really, why? Why is she the “ex-boyfriend” of the case? OH RIGHT, THEY WEREN’T MARRIED! They had a kid together, “parent” is different than “boyfriend/girlfriend” So the ADF’s argument is worthless, BEATEN BY A 19-20 YEAR OLD…are they REALLY that fcking stupid?

  • Trish Anderson Said: October 5th, 2008 at 12:01 am
    • Commenting on the case in Montana. I find it really disturbing that this “non_lesbian” who I am sure would have fought tooth and nail for her right to co parent with her ex partner at one time is now so far the other direction as to hire an anti gay group lawyer to defend her position. Shame on her and her prejudice.

  • Larry Said: October 5th, 2008 at 9:00 am
    • wow, an ex-gay wonder how long that’s gonna work for her? oh well another hetero divorce. She picked this woman to help her raise the children and it isnt all about her anymore just because it cuts into her precious new life doesnt mean someone that supported the children both mentally and financially at one time and she professed to love shouldnt be allowed to continue raising THEIR children

  • Trace Said: October 5th, 2008 at 9:59 am
    • I applaud the court for looking out for the best interests of the child.

      Now on a larger point, this topic of “lesbians” getting married seems to be one that someone should look into. There seem to be a large portion of “so called” lesbians moving from gay relationships into marrying men? I think that there would be some interesting statistics behind this.

      In turn, it seems to be just the opposite for men. I know many men that were married to women at one time and then came out as gay.

      I think that a lot of this has to do with societal expectations and constraints. Men are often forced into marrying women at young ages as it’s “what’s expected.” In turn, it seems to be a later expectation that women are expected to be with a man.

      Just something to look at.

  • Jayson Said: October 6th, 2008 at 11:06 am
    • We can’t have it both ways people. I just married my partner of 24 years. If you are in a relationship with someone then decide that it is not working, you can’t just pretend that it didn’t happen. If we want equal rights then we must realize those rights work for all the same reasons that a straight mariage does. BOTH parents should have equal rights. THINK about what is right for the children.