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		<title>By: Justin</title>
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		<dc:creator>Justin</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 22 Jan 2009 20:42:55 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Fortunately, I think most of us have been manipulated, and or had our &#039;reality&#039; manipulated, long enough to see just how &#039;threatened&#039; the &#039;moral majority&#039; is, and to what lengths they will go to maintain their own &#039;morality closet&#039;. 

We ALL have two sides to our life, and whether we see those sides as reality versus illusion, truth versus lie, in the closet versus out of the closet, conservative right versus liberal left, just to name a few, it is the exposure of those that throw stones from one extreme side or the other that feed the fires of divide and conquer. 

While &#039;truth&#039; is far more likely to be found somewhere in the middle, divide and conquer keeps us fighting over &#039;moral/morality&#039; issues based entirely on &#039;Biblical Law&#039;, with &#039;God&#039; being the law of the land, versus the true &#039;moral/morality&#039; where &#039;we the people&#039; hold the inalienable right&#039;s of our democratic republic, whereby our &#039;Constitutional/Bill of Rights Law&#039; ALWAYS stands as the common middle ground for one and all... and truth be known, neither of the opposing sides could exist without.

The question being asked should be is whether Adams &#039;lie&#039; is/was based entirely on Biblical morality, of which &#039;God&#039; is said to be the one that will determine the fate of the &#039;liar&#039;, versus our Constitutional law whereby one must actually break a law, and even then is innocent until proven guilty in a court of law. 

Adams did not break a law, as the unnamed &#039;teenager&#039; is/was NOT a &#039;victim&#039; that either has been or currently is charging Adams with a &#039;crime&#039;. The unnamed &#039;teenager&#039; was of LEGAL age of CONSENT at the time the CONSENTUAL sex occurred, regardless of the age difference of the two CONSENTUAL ADULTS at the time. Adams has NOT &#039;lied&#039; under oath, nor has Adams fraudulently &#039;lied and/or intentionally concealed&#039; an issue pertinent to a legal contract, so again, no law was broken, no illegal act was committed, therefore their is no basis for a &#039;legal&#039; charge of &#039;lying&#039; that could lead to legal charge, let alone prosecution.

Simply put, Adams, like all the rest of us, looked at the source of the charge in 2007, and knew it was best that he &#039;conceal&#039; the truth from that source. As long as no law has been broken, Adams has every right to his private life, of which he has EVERY right to conceal and protect as he sees fit. ALL of us, including Adams, carries his/her own right to life, liberty and the pursuit of happiness as an INALIENABLE right, and it makes little or no difference what the religious right says, or what the Bible says for that matter, &#039;we the people&#039; continue to have INALIENABLE right&#039;s that remain INALIENABLE !!! 

Sadly for all of us, what constitutes &#039;Journalism&#039; these days, continues to spiral off the cliff of sensationalizing the Police blotter and/or playing the morality police for the likes of Falwell, Robertson, Dobson, etc., etc., or the scandal of the likes of Ted Haggard, Jim &amp; Tammy Baker, Oral Roberts, Jimmy Swaggart, etc., etc., or the scandal of the political figures like Larry Craig, etc., etc., ... yet, where is the media on the real issues most pertinant to the survival of the planet, and therefore mankind ? Where is the media with  issues like the Patriot Act, Military Commissions Act, Torture, FISA, Enron/Harkin, etc., etc., ... don&#039;t EVEN talk to me about the MORAL FAILINGS of Adams, or how his &#039;lying&#039; somehow even should be an issue, let alone one that determines his ability to do his job, let alone question his RIGHT to have his job as a &#039;Gay Mayor&#039; !!! ... and why does the title of this article use the word &#039;affair&#039;... was Adams &#039;married&#039; at the time ??? If the KKK asked you a question, whereby your right to life was determined by your answer, would it be a &#039;lie&#039; or a &#039;concealment&#039; if you chose to save your own life, and what would it matter what the truth was or whose truth it was if you knew death was the only other alternative ???</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Fortunately, I think most of us have been manipulated, and or had our &#8216;reality&#8217; manipulated, long enough to see just how &#8216;threatened&#8217; the &#8216;moral majority&#8217; is, and to what lengths they will go to maintain their own &#8216;morality closet&#8217;. </p>
<p>We ALL have two sides to our life, and whether we see those sides as reality versus illusion, truth versus lie, in the closet versus out of the closet, conservative right versus liberal left, just to name a few, it is the exposure of those that throw stones from one extreme side or the other that feed the fires of divide and conquer. </p>
<p>While &#8216;truth&#8217; is far more likely to be found somewhere in the middle, divide and conquer keeps us fighting over &#8216;moral/morality&#8217; issues based entirely on &#8216;Biblical Law&#8217;, with &#8216;God&#8217; being the law of the land, versus the true &#8216;moral/morality&#8217; where &#8216;we the people&#8217; hold the inalienable right&#8217;s of our democratic republic, whereby our &#8216;Constitutional/Bill of Rights Law&#8217; ALWAYS stands as the common middle ground for one and all&#8230; and truth be known, neither of the opposing sides could exist without.</p>
<p>The question being asked should be is whether Adams &#8216;lie&#8217; is/was based entirely on Biblical morality, of which &#8216;God&#8217; is said to be the one that will determine the fate of the &#8216;liar&#8217;, versus our Constitutional law whereby one must actually break a law, and even then is innocent until proven guilty in a court of law. </p>
<p>Adams did not break a law, as the unnamed &#8216;teenager&#8217; is/was NOT a &#8216;victim&#8217; that either has been or currently is charging Adams with a &#8216;crime&#8217;. The unnamed &#8216;teenager&#8217; was of LEGAL age of CONSENT at the time the CONSENTUAL sex occurred, regardless of the age difference of the two CONSENTUAL ADULTS at the time. Adams has NOT &#8216;lied&#8217; under oath, nor has Adams fraudulently &#8216;lied and/or intentionally concealed&#8217; an issue pertinent to a legal contract, so again, no law was broken, no illegal act was committed, therefore their is no basis for a &#8216;legal&#8217; charge of &#8216;lying&#8217; that could lead to legal charge, let alone prosecution.</p>
<p>Simply put, Adams, like all the rest of us, looked at the source of the charge in 2007, and knew it was best that he &#8216;conceal&#8217; the truth from that source. As long as no law has been broken, Adams has every right to his private life, of which he has EVERY right to conceal and protect as he sees fit. ALL of us, including Adams, carries his/her own right to life, liberty and the pursuit of happiness as an INALIENABLE right, and it makes little or no difference what the religious right says, or what the Bible says for that matter, &#8216;we the people&#8217; continue to have INALIENABLE right&#8217;s that remain INALIENABLE !!! </p>
<p>Sadly for all of us, what constitutes &#8216;Journalism&#8217; these days, continues to spiral off the cliff of sensationalizing the Police blotter and/or playing the morality police for the likes of Falwell, Robertson, Dobson, etc., etc., or the scandal of the likes of Ted Haggard, Jim &amp; Tammy Baker, Oral Roberts, Jimmy Swaggart, etc., etc., or the scandal of the political figures like Larry Craig, etc., etc., &#8230; yet, where is the media on the real issues most pertinant to the survival of the planet, and therefore mankind ? Where is the media with  issues like the Patriot Act, Military Commissions Act, Torture, FISA, Enron/Harkin, etc., etc., &#8230; don&#8217;t EVEN talk to me about the MORAL FAILINGS of Adams, or how his &#8216;lying&#8217; somehow even should be an issue, let alone one that determines his ability to do his job, let alone question his RIGHT to have his job as a &#8216;Gay Mayor&#8217; !!! &#8230; and why does the title of this article use the word &#8216;affair&#8217;&#8230; was Adams &#8216;married&#8217; at the time ??? If the KKK asked you a question, whereby your right to life was determined by your answer, would it be a &#8216;lie&#8217; or a &#8216;concealment&#8217; if you chose to save your own life, and what would it matter what the truth was or whose truth it was if you knew death was the only other alternative ???</p>
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		<title>By: Roman</title>
		<link>http://www.365gay.com/news/gay-mayor-admits-to-affair/comment-page-3/#comment-40096</link>
		<dc:creator>Roman</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 22 Jan 2009 20:18:03 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I lived in Oregon for many years. I loved this state for many reasons and I still do. I love Portland for is a beacon of light in comparison to many other cities. We have great social programs, respect civil liberties, the environment, and generally care for others. We think globally and act locally.
I am living in another state but I still care for Oregon greatly. I try to act with an Oregon state of mind wherever I go. I remember seen former mayor Vera Katz and Sam Adams in gay parades and other social events. I felt close to them and I believe they care so much for our city and its citizens.
Many times I see the name of Portland, OR in the national and international news for worthy reasons. I am swept with so much joy and nostalgia at the same time. Lately, not only the national but international news have been flooded with Sam&#039;s affair. I am sadden that he felt into temptation to do an act that has put into question his integrity and judment. However, if no laws were broken, I am in favor that he keeps his job for I believe that he has the interest of city in his heart. If he broke the law, I hope he takes the consequences of his act with valor and resignation.
To those who want to judge be careful for you will also be judge with the same measurement. To those who raise their leaders to god-like stature, be advised, you will be let down. Omnia mutantur, nos et mutamor in illis. Latin. All things change, and we change with them. 
If we are to survive and thrive, we need to adapt. 
As Gay Americans, we are sorry to see one of us, fall. Our hearts are elated when one of ours rise to prominent positions. Also, our hearts are overjoy when leaders and people in general accepts us just the way we are and treat us equally with dignity and respect. If one of us, has caused you pain and disappointment, please accept our sincere apologies.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I lived in Oregon for many years. I loved this state for many reasons and I still do. I love Portland for is a beacon of light in comparison to many other cities. We have great social programs, respect civil liberties, the environment, and generally care for others. We think globally and act locally.<br />
I am living in another state but I still care for Oregon greatly. I try to act with an Oregon state of mind wherever I go. I remember seen former mayor Vera Katz and Sam Adams in gay parades and other social events. I felt close to them and I believe they care so much for our city and its citizens.<br />
Many times I see the name of Portland, OR in the national and international news for worthy reasons. I am swept with so much joy and nostalgia at the same time. Lately, not only the national but international news have been flooded with Sam&#8217;s affair. I am sadden that he felt into temptation to do an act that has put into question his integrity and judment. However, if no laws were broken, I am in favor that he keeps his job for I believe that he has the interest of city in his heart. If he broke the law, I hope he takes the consequences of his act with valor and resignation.<br />
To those who want to judge be careful for you will also be judge with the same measurement. To those who raise their leaders to god-like stature, be advised, you will be let down. Omnia mutantur, nos et mutamor in illis. Latin. All things change, and we change with them.<br />
If we are to survive and thrive, we need to adapt.<br />
As Gay Americans, we are sorry to see one of us, fall. Our hearts are elated when one of ours rise to prominent positions. Also, our hearts are overjoy when leaders and people in general accepts us just the way we are and treat us equally with dignity and respect. If one of us, has caused you pain and disappointment, please accept our sincere apologies.</p>
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		<title>By: J. Bruce Wilcox</title>
		<link>http://www.365gay.com/news/gay-mayor-admits-to-affair/comment-page-3/#comment-40060</link>
		<dc:creator>J. Bruce Wilcox</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 22 Jan 2009 16:03:02 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I have one other comment-

Anybody out there ever heard of a singer named Celine Dion?

Like well- duh?

Her manager- a much much older man- groomed her from her teenage years- and then got her to marry him- but only after she was OLD ENOUGH. So this supposed grooming thing- it&#039;s been going on a long time. And heteros do it all the time. And 18 is legal.

So for you fags (and everybody else) who are horrified by the age gap- because that just don&#039;t work for you- you need to get a life. Everybody&#039;s different. Some folks like an age difference. Think Christopher Isherwood and his very young artist lover. And even Armistead Maupin- also has a much younger lover- if I recall correctly.

And anybody who thinks an 18 year old isn&#039;t an adult sexually- while not being a mature adult- still- an 18 year old knows exactly what sex is and usually wants A LOT OF IT.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I have one other comment-</p>
<p>Anybody out there ever heard of a singer named Celine Dion?</p>
<p>Like well- duh?</p>
<p>Her manager- a much much older man- groomed her from her teenage years- and then got her to marry him- but only after she was OLD ENOUGH. So this supposed grooming thing- it&#8217;s been going on a long time. And heteros do it all the time. And 18 is legal.</p>
<p>So for you fags (and everybody else) who are horrified by the age gap- because that just don&#8217;t work for you- you need to get a life. Everybody&#8217;s different. Some folks like an age difference. Think Christopher Isherwood and his very young artist lover. And even Armistead Maupin- also has a much younger lover- if I recall correctly.</p>
<p>And anybody who thinks an 18 year old isn&#8217;t an adult sexually- while not being a mature adult- still- an 18 year old knows exactly what sex is and usually wants A LOT OF IT.</p>
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		<title>By: The Menstruator</title>
		<link>http://www.365gay.com/news/gay-mayor-admits-to-affair/comment-page-3/#comment-40049</link>
		<dc:creator>The Menstruator</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 22 Jan 2009 13:10:01 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>If you think that that dude waited until the kids was 18, I doubt it severely. However, the boy was consenting what&#039;s the harm? right! Right! Happens to girls all the time. It&#039;s practically a part of puberty for females as disgusting at men are. 
But this is the perfect Dennis Cooper-esque fantasy. Many older gay men enjoy the twinks just like man disgusting straight perverts like raping little girls. It&#039;s ok, right?</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>If you think that that dude waited until the kids was 18, I doubt it severely. However, the boy was consenting what&#8217;s the harm? right! Right! Happens to girls all the time. It&#8217;s practically a part of puberty for females as disgusting at men are.<br />
But this is the perfect Dennis Cooper-esque fantasy. Many older gay men enjoy the twinks just like man disgusting straight perverts like raping little girls. It&#8217;s ok, right?</p>
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		<title>By: Bob</title>
		<link>http://www.365gay.com/news/gay-mayor-admits-to-affair/comment-page-3/#comment-40047</link>
		<dc:creator>Bob</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 22 Jan 2009 12:21:04 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>This is no big deal in the larger picture. Stright men in government, business and every other walk of life have been chasing skirts outside of their wedded bliss for eons. The problem is that gay men are judged by every incident of sexual activity conducted by every other gay man. Leave the man alone and let him get on with doing the job he was entrusted to do. Secret sex does not make him a bad guy or a terrible leader.
Let&#039;s tell straight America and its homophobic bigotry to go FUCK itself!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>This is no big deal in the larger picture. Stright men in government, business and every other walk of life have been chasing skirts outside of their wedded bliss for eons. The problem is that gay men are judged by every incident of sexual activity conducted by every other gay man. Leave the man alone and let him get on with doing the job he was entrusted to do. Secret sex does not make him a bad guy or a terrible leader.<br />
Let&#8217;s tell straight America and its homophobic bigotry to go FUCK itself!</p>
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		<title>By: mdc.philly</title>
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		<dc:creator>mdc.philly</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 22 Jan 2009 12:01:40 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I for one would not make any public apology for this behavior.  No adultery took place, and no crime has been committed.  &quot;You&#039;ll get over it&quot;.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I for one would not make any public apology for this behavior.  No adultery took place, and no crime has been committed.  &#8220;You&#8217;ll get over it&#8221;.</p>
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		<title>By: Bobby</title>
		<link>http://www.365gay.com/news/gay-mayor-admits-to-affair/comment-page-3/#comment-40045</link>
		<dc:creator>Bobby</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 22 Jan 2009 10:43:20 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Excuse me, but Sam Adams is a total daddy, I do not think that I would be able to keep my hands off him if I were his intern.  All of you self-righteous mos need to calm down, the guy involved was of age, so slow your roll...</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Excuse me, but Sam Adams is a total daddy, I do not think that I would be able to keep my hands off him if I were his intern.  All of you self-righteous mos need to calm down, the guy involved was of age, so slow your roll&#8230;</p>
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		<title>By: GayMan</title>
		<link>http://www.365gay.com/news/gay-mayor-admits-to-affair/comment-page-2/#comment-40044</link>
		<dc:creator>GayMan</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 22 Jan 2009 09:39:36 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Oh GOD shut up, gay people! You don&#039;t have to prove anything to haterosexuals. You don&#039;t have to prove anything to haterosexuals. You don&#039;t have to prove anything to haterosexuals. Can you READ that? They are not your authority, not your god.

Sam Adams was dating at the time. Sam Adams was dating at the time. Sam Adams was dating at the time. Beau Breedlove was an ADULT. Beau Breedlove was an ADULT. Beau Breedlove was an ADULT.

Posted by: Bill &#124; Jan 22, 2009 12:36:26 AM



These attacks on Sam Adams are 100% anti-gay. The whole reason he lied was because the haterosexual and gay enforcers of haterosexual oppression public would not accept a dating gay man.

Where were the cries of resignation for David Paterson who acknowledges shortly after he became Governor of New York that he and his wife have an open marriage?</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Oh GOD shut up, gay people! You don&#8217;t have to prove anything to haterosexuals. You don&#8217;t have to prove anything to haterosexuals. You don&#8217;t have to prove anything to haterosexuals. Can you READ that? They are not your authority, not your god.</p>
<p>Sam Adams was dating at the time. Sam Adams was dating at the time. Sam Adams was dating at the time. Beau Breedlove was an ADULT. Beau Breedlove was an ADULT. Beau Breedlove was an ADULT.</p>
<p>Posted by: Bill | Jan 22, 2009 12:36:26 AM</p>
<p>These attacks on Sam Adams are 100% anti-gay. The whole reason he lied was because the haterosexual and gay enforcers of haterosexual oppression public would not accept a dating gay man.</p>
<p>Where were the cries of resignation for David Paterson who acknowledges shortly after he became Governor of New York that he and his wife have an open marriage?</p>
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		<title>By: Kris</title>
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		<dc:creator>Kris</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 22 Jan 2009 06:55:08 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Oh, come on! I was 18, and dated a guy who was 34. I also dated guys 7-8 years older than I. I have been attracted to older men, my entire life. I feel like &quot;older men&quot;, can take care of themselves, paying rent, driving their own cars, and paying bills. I know that the public gets outraged with things such as this. The &quot;boy&quot; was 18. That is legal, and like someone said previously, the &quot;18 year old&quot;, knew what he was doing, wasn&#039;t raped, and was satisfied with the sexual relationship. I know that the public tears a person a new one, everytime something happens that they don&#039;t approve of, but listen, we live in a &quot;free&quot; country. That means when a person is 18, he has his choices of what to do. Give me a break people!!!!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Oh, come on! I was 18, and dated a guy who was 34. I also dated guys 7-8 years older than I. I have been attracted to older men, my entire life. I feel like &#8220;older men&#8221;, can take care of themselves, paying rent, driving their own cars, and paying bills. I know that the public gets outraged with things such as this. The &#8220;boy&#8221; was 18. That is legal, and like someone said previously, the &#8220;18 year old&#8221;, knew what he was doing, wasn&#8217;t raped, and was satisfied with the sexual relationship. I know that the public tears a person a new one, everytime something happens that they don&#8217;t approve of, but listen, we live in a &#8220;free&#8221; country. That means when a person is 18, he has his choices of what to do. Give me a break people!!!!</p>
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		<title>By: vanndean</title>
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		<dc:creator>vanndean</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 22 Jan 2009 05:47:42 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Mayor says &quot;I screwed up. I blew it.&quot;

I think that may be classified as TMI and I am willing to bet that he did!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Mayor says &#8220;I screwed up. I blew it.&#8221;</p>
<p>I think that may be classified as TMI and I am willing to bet that he did!</p>
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