November 21st, 2009
 

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Episcopalians: Bishops can bless same-sex unions


(Anaheim, Calif.) Episcopalians on Friday authorized bishops to bless same-sex unions and research an official prayer for the ceremonies, capping a meeting that moved the church closer to accepting gay relationships despite turmoil over the issue in the Anglican family.

The Episcopal General Convention also underscored the church’s desire to remain a full member of the global Anglican Communion. But the actions at the national assembly are likely to damage the already strained relations within the fellowship.

Delegates voted earlier this week to effectively drop a pledge that they would act with “restraint” when considering any more openly gay candidates for bishop.

The Episcopal gay advocacy group Integrity said the church “turned an important corner” with the vote.

But the Rev. Dan Martins of the Dioces of Northern Indiana said he feared the measure would widen the rift with overseas Anglicans.

“On this day, my church is covering itself in shame, and I am profoundly sorry for it,” he said.

The Episcopal Church caused an uproar among Anglicans in 2003 by consecrating the first openly gay bishop, V. Gene Robinson of New Hampshire. The Anglican spiritual leader, Archbishop of Canterbury Rowan Williams, has struggled ever since to keep the communion unified.

Anglican leaders had pressed Episcopalians for a moratorium on electing more gay bishops, and asked the church not to develop an official prayer for same-gender couples.

But the measure adopted Friday noted the growing number of U.S. states that allow gay marriage, civil unions and domestic partnerships, and gave bishops in those regions discretion to provide a “generous pastoral response” to couples in local parishes.

The resolution also authorized a church commission to “collect and develop theological resources and liturgies” for blessing same-gender relationships for consideration at the next national convention in 2012. Many dioceses already allow clergy to bless same-sex couples, but there is no liturgy for the ceremonies in the denomination’s Book of Prayer.

Williams attended the opening days of the convention and told delegates, “I hope and pray that there won’t be decisions in the coming days that could push us further apart.”

Back in England, he has said only that he regrets the convention’s decision to lift the de facto moratorium on gay bishops. The archbishop of Canterbury does not have the authority to force a compromise on the issue because each Anglican province is independently governed.

The 77 million-member communion is the third-largest grouping of churches worldwide, behind Roman Catholic and Orthodox Christian churches.

Presiding Bishop Katharine Jefferts Schori, head of the Episcopal Church, sent Williams a letter, released publicly Friday, saying that the actions of the convention were not meant to offend and did not mean that all – or any – diocese would necessarily consecrate a gay bishop.

“We remain keenly aware of the concerns and sensibilities of our brothers and sisters in other churches across the communion,” she wrote. “We believe also that the honesty reflected in this resolution is essential if we are to live into the deep communion that we all profess and earnestly desire.”

David Steinmetz, an expert in Christian history at Duke Divinity School in Durham, N.C., said Anglicanism has always accommodated different views, but “the question now is whether or not they can find enough things to agree about so they can still disagree about other things and stay in the family.”

Last month, breakaway Episcopal conservatives and other like-minded traditionalists formed a rival national province to the Episcopal Church called the Anglican Church in North America.

The new body includes four seceding Episcopal dioceses and is supported by several overseas Anglican leaders who have broken ties with the Episcopal Church.

Some traditional Episcopal bishops have stayed with the denomination, but many predicted the latest votes would break the Anglican fellowship. At the end of the convention, about 25 bishops with more conservative Bible views signed a statement that they “reaffirm our commitment to the doctrine, discipline, and worship of Christ as this church has received them.”

Delegates wrapped up the meeting with an emotional debate before over same-sex blessings, then sang “Swing Low, Sweet Chariot” while the votes were counted.

The Rev. Ian Douglas, a scholar of Anglicanism at Episcopal Divinity School in Cambridge, Mass., said he realized the resolution could “cause turmoil,” but he believed the church was “being faithful to God and Jesus Christ and the Holy Spirit.”

“Some will want to cast this decision as a choice between our faithfulness to God and our place in the Anglican Communion. But I will not join in,” he said. “I pray that our service to God’s mission of reconciliation will keep us together.”

George Wing, a theological conservative and delegate from the Diocese of Colorado, said he worries that the church’s liberal direction has caused active churchgoers to leave.

“The problem is, the most dedicated of the young people are evangelicals. They’re gone, and they’re not coming back,” Wing said.


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  • Brandon Said: July 19th, 2009 at 5:02 pm
    • I for one am thrilled by this news. And though I am a gay Catholic, not an Episcopalian, for me, this remains a victory in principle.

      Now, as for all those deriding organized religion just because of some sort of personal antipathy, you would do well to note the irony: You who rail against organized religion’s historic tendency to scapegoat the LGBT community are yourselves making a scapegoat of the religious community now, which includes more than a few of your own. That, my friends, is the very epitome of hypocrisy–in my estimation, anyway. So long as humankind’s deep-seated desire for the transcendent remains, so too will religious institutions. Rather than childishly condemning and blaming, we of all people should be modeling cooperation and promoting understanding.

      Something to think about.

  • Ginelle Said: July 19th, 2009 at 4:54 pm
    • While I think it is a great thing that the church appears to be moving in the right direction by recognizing gay marriages, at the same time a lot of people within the church will still hold onto their archaic traditions and beliefs. This of course will split the church further, which really doesn’t matter to me or a lot of other men or women in the gay community. It will take a very long time to heal the wounds that the church has inflicted on gay men and women over all these centuries. We have been forced to hide in shame, we have been forced to live lives that are not our own, we have been beaten, we have been killed, we have been denied our equal place in society. Do you think that after all this persecution and hate directed to our community, that a few crumbs are going to fix everything? It’s going to take time, maybe not in our generation but who knows maybe the next generation will finally find peace with the church!

  • gyzmo Said: July 19th, 2009 at 3:48 pm
    • I agree with John B..
      Who care if religion accepts gay marriage or not. They CAN blow it out their ass.
      They have done enough damage already.
      For that they ARE on the fast track to extinction. Horaayyy!!!

  • John B. Said: July 19th, 2009 at 2:13 pm
    • I personally don’t care if a religious institution accepts our marriages or not. If they want to bless us, good for them. If they don’t, they can blow it out the other the end. The sudden acceptance of gay marriage doesn’t make up for all the sodomy arrests, trials, and executions over the past 1,700 years! Remember Edward!!!

  • douglas in canada Said: July 19th, 2009 at 1:50 pm
    • To continue:
      Currently, when ministers/priests/clergy preside at weddings, they are wearing two hats. first and last, they represent their religious institution.

      But somewhere in the middle, they take off that hat, and put on a hat that says “Government representative.” Without that hat, they cannot legally perform a marriage.

      For as long they wear their religious institution hat, they are doing nothing more than a “blessing ceremony.”

      So, two hats.
      “Government hat” to marry.
      “Religious institution hat” to bless.

      That’s how it is already. Now just take one more step.

  • douglas in canada Said: July 19th, 2009 at 1:39 pm
    • To add to Bama-Stu’s comments:
      Getting married in the church — this has two meanings and we need to remember…

      Everyone who gets married in a church, at least in Canada, has to sign a provincial marriage license and the church’s marriage register. That is a legal, government action. In fact, until recently, a lot of churches had the signing take place outisde the church’s designated ’sacred space’ so as not to defile it with a state activity.

      The rest of the wedding or marriage ceremony was church-related and could take whatever form was most appropriate for those present.

      I think we would all be well-served if the actual licensing took place in city-hall for EVERYONE, then those who wished could continue on to a church for their religious blessing. [I'm not sure about synagogues and mosques.] This would help to clarify the issue; part of the problem remains, that many religious people think that a church wedding is a 100% religious affair. It is not. It’s a church/government combo, and it’s the government part that traditionally made two people “lawfully declared to be husband and wife.”

  • Wayne M. Said: July 19th, 2009 at 12:52 pm
    • The Episcopalian Church has acted wisely and courageously by choosing to be open, affirming and welcoming for LGBT people. The previous “compromise” of a moratorium on blessing same-sex unions or ordinations of LGBT persons was not working. The conservatives were exiting the Episcopal church anyway. As a member of the Anglican church of Canada, I hope and pray we will follow the example of the Episcopalian Church of American, and while I do not want anyone to leave, I understand those who suffer from the illness of homophobia and refuse treatment will need to meet their Spiritual needs elsewhere.

  • Trace Said: July 19th, 2009 at 11:23 am
    • Bama, as another life long Episcopalian … you are absolutely right. This is most wonderful news and a great reason to celebrate.

  • Bama-Stu Said: July 19th, 2009 at 10:38 am
    • As a life-long Episcopalian, and an active Church goer, I am so very happy that my Church is moving in the right direction.
      And Quinn – this is nothing like the Baptists and their “hate the sin, love the sinner” which I agree is Bullshit. This action means that the LGBT community is accepted and welcomed by the Episcopal Church. And as for not being “married” in the Church – it is the same thing. When we have legal civil marriage in every state in this land, then we can get “married” in Church. Until that time, we will have blessing ceremonies that, in the eyes of God, the Church and the Congregation are the SAME thing.
      Now – instead of everyone being so negative and down on a major Church doing something to advance our rights – why don’t we celebrate, pause and then keep up the fight with the other denominations and our local, state and federal government.

  • Jean Ihenry Said: July 19th, 2009 at 9:53 am
    • Big deal — gays still can’t get married in an Episcopal church. Christians still suck.

  • Quinn Said: July 19th, 2009 at 9:49 am
    • And another thing… Any gay person who belongs to, supports and donates money to homophobic and gay-hating organizations like this should have their head examined. It’s time we really stood up and said we’re not going to take this discrimination anymore. We’ve been pushed to the shadows for so long that we believe we’re not worthy of equal treatment.

  • Quinn Said: July 19th, 2009 at 9:40 am
    • Oh, thank you, thank you! At last I can sleep at night knowing Episcopalians can bless me. This is like the ‘hate the sin, love the sinner’ bullshit. F-off, you bigoted assholes. I am so tired of being ‘tolerated’ I could puke!

  • Southernhemisphere Said: July 19th, 2009 at 9:32 am
    • GOOD MORNING !

  • Southernhemisphere Said: July 19th, 2009 at 9:30 am
    • Some have decided to continue walking clutching their crucifix in the closet. Some have decided to continue walking carrying the burden of an anvil and hammer with purple mournful setteled in on the path “Down Low”.But thanks be to God that the Episcopalians have allowed The gay And lesbian portion of the body of Christ to walk in the light.YES, “Walk in the LIGHT beautiful light. Come where the dew drops of MERCY shine bright.SHine all around us by day and by night.JESUS light of the world.” ” I have been found by a people who did not seek me.”

  • Michael Said: July 19th, 2009 at 3:57 am
    • How very sad that the homophobia of some is more important than God or keeping the church together.

 
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