Dana White steamed over gay slur coverage
04.15.2009 2:27pm EDT
(Toronto, Ontario) No stranger to dropping the F-bomb, Ulitmate Fighting Championship president Dana White is still smarting over his use of the other F-word in a recent video blog.
He’s sorry he used the gay slur – and says he now knows better – but he’s not about to fade into the background. White is steamed at the way the story was covered.“In the United States, every single media outlet picked that thing up and carried it – people that won’t even cover us,” he told The Canadian Press in an interview.
“All these major media companies that pulled this blurb and threw it up everywhere, they weren’t looking out for gay people . . . They weren’t offended by it. It’s a cool quote to throw out there, get some attention, get some hits on the website, get some people buzzing and watching it. They could care less,” he added.
“I went directly to the people that I offended. And the reality is I have gay friends, I have gay people that I respect, that I work with and do things with. And I reached out to them and the people who could be offended by what I said, and I apologized and I told my side of the story.”
As to the rest of the media? White uses the F-bomb to describe what they can do to themselves.
“Because it has nothing to do with them. They used me, that’s the way I look at it.”
White, 39, is the face of the UFC, a colorful advocate of mixed martial arts who swears like a drunken sailor and has no internal self-edit button. It’s part of his appeal. Fans like his no bull approach, because he doesn’t try to snow them and because he is as passionate as they are about Mixed Martial Arts.
And reporters love a subject who speaks his mind.
He says exactly what he thinks on just about any topic – which can be ill-advised at the best of times, let alone for a celebrity who walks around with a camera in his face for blogging purposes.
For those who missed the story, an irate White unloaded earlier this month in his video blog on longtime MMA journalist Loretta Hunt, who writes for www.sherdog.com. Hunt’s story – which she stands by – said the UFC was trying to prevent managers and agents from being with fighters backstage, and that some managers believed the move was part of a larger attempt to wedge them out of business and deal directly with fighters.
White calls the story a crock and used the F-bomb 34 times to make his point in the three-minute nine-second video rant against the reporter – including once in tandem with the gay slur, which he used generically to reference an unidentified source in the story.
“Not the F-word I usually use but the other F-word,” he said wistfully Tuesday.
“I grew up saying that word, joking around with your friends. Anybody who knows me knows that I’m not the type of guy that would ever hurt anybody because they’re different, no matter whether it’s their sex, race, religion or whatever it is. It’s not me, it’s not what I’m like. I don’t do that.
“Do I swear a lot? Damn right I do. When I said that word, it wasn’t directed toward anybody gay, or anybody’s sexual orientation. It’s not what it was used for. I definitely pulled the wrong swear word out of the swear toolbox.”
White apologized for the use of the gay slur in a subsequent video, and talked to both the Gay & Lesbian Alliance Against Defamation and The Advocate. He did not apologize for slagging Hunt.
Take away the gay slur, however, and the blog in question is still uncomfortable to watch. It is spiteful and nasty _ a long way from the original intention of the video blogs, an attempt to keep White connected to the fans.
And many times, they were amusing _ albeit sometimes in a childish way. White’s travels, usually with another UFC exec or billionaire co-owner Lorenzo Fertitta _ backstage, in an SUV or private jet _ were kind of a Richie Rich version of “Bill & Ted’s Excellent Adventure.”
There was a giggling White buying Fertitta skimpy workout gear. Or grumpily feeling the effects of a bad burger. Or gleefully pointing out to the camera that Fertitta was the one hung over that morning.
Video blogs that showed White and his fighters playing dueling “Guitar Hero” on his iPhone in the back of their SUV were entertaining. And footage of White, a father of three, playing Pac-Man with his young daughter was downright cute.
But there’s bad with the good of being able to record and share. One moment of pique, with a camera too close nearby, has had consequences – especially for a sport looking to win over mainstream support.
White admits the sherdog.com story “set me off and it made me mad.” So he fired back, for everyone to see.
“Back in 1987, if the media wrote something about you, you were screwed,” he said. “You had no voice, you couldn’t say anything back. Well now with the Internet, you can. You can come back. Yeah, did I go a little over the top? Absolutely, but that’s me. I am over the top and I was so pissed off about it. …”
Some thought he also went too far in a blog last year, when he seemed to delight in the demise of a rival organization. He takes things very personally.
“There’s another story that I read yesterday in a fight magazine, on my way here, that is such a crock of shit, it’s unbelievable,” he said. “I read this stuff and it’s like these guys make this stuff up. But I’ve got to stop getting so fired up about the small stuff like that.”
He admits it’s hard advice to follow.
“It is. Because we work hard. Man, we work hard at building this sport. We work hard at having great relationships with the fighters. To see people write bullshit, it’s crazy.”
White has his detractors, but also many supporters. While the UFC can be cutthroat and cheap to fledgling fighters, managers talk about how it will look after fighters down on their luck or in need of help. Big bonus cheques are awarded backstage, away from the prying eyes of the media.
Reward the UFC and the UFC will reward you right back.
The blog brouhaha came just weeks after the Armed Forces Foundation honored White and the UFC in Washington, D.C., with the Sheldon Adelson Patriot Award for humanitarianism in industry for “raising money and awareness for research and development in the field of traumatic brain injury” in their support of U.S. troops.
White may run a billion-dollar business, but he will stand and talk MMA with journalists until there are no more questions, even while security and aides fidget. And he will do the same with fans.
In person, he is hard to dislike. But his obvious passion can be a double-edged sword.
White will still be front and center, including this weekend at UFC 97 in Montreal, but his blog apparently is on the bench for the time being.
“I’m still on the fence with the whole blog thing,” he said Tuesday. “I have a blog right now that we shot yesterday (Monday) and now we’re all sitting around wondering if this is too controversial.”
“I’m me, I’m who I am. That’s not going to change, you know. Maybe who I am is too much, too much for the real world,” he added with a chuckle. “But I’m not going to deal with all the bullshit.
“I have enough things to do every day without dealing with people twisting what I said. To deal with what I dealt with last week, it takes a whole week off my plate when I should have been dealing with other stuff - stuff that matters, real work.”





Look…if you ever watched 15 minutes of UFC, and you’re a gay man who likes men instead of fey little Abercrombie bitches, then Dana White’s not a ‘phobe. He’s like plenty of guys and I’d be willing to see more of how White acts. The guys in UFC…no, not like most are going on to study oboe at the conservatory, but most could probably help you with typical guy stuff. Why’s that bad? For some gays, UFC is innately bad because it’s balls-out testosterone bonehead man entertainment. Why is it that the gay Establishment seems to have a problem with guys who are stereotypically male? For what it’s worth, the more I act like these guys, the more I get–nevermind
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Hey guys, where was all this righteous indignation when Mr. Garrison called on the town to tie gays to a truck and participate in an old fashioned “fag drag” on South Park?
The man made a mistake and apolgized. Not only that, but it sounds like he was educated in the process. When did we become so rigid that we can’t accept a simple apology?
I agree with DeAnimator.
Also…
“I have friends that are”…that is never an excuse for ignorance, if nothing else it shows how much one cares about their “friends”.
If one grows up using such terms, it does not give one an excuse for ignorance nor a license to use such terms all their lives. Especially if you have “friends that”!
I love the “i have gay friends” defense. Meanwhile, all of my straight friends think they are “allies,” but that really means they just say “fag” when we aren’t around.
@ John Tyler
I’m confused: why is it that homophobia be fought every time it surfaces, but as a society we feel as if challenging racism is passé and played-out? Just a random question.
To challenge what you said, I think he does have a pass because he has gay friends and whatnot. He says that he didn’t mean to offend anyone and we should trust him. If he’s lying then he’ll deal with it one way or another.
The reason I say its okay is because we’ve allowed sexism to become the same way. The word “b****” is still offensive, despite the fact that you may have female friends. Racism is the same way with the “n*****” word.
Basically, to try and link all of what I said together, if we are going after one kind of oppression then we must stamp out all. That one tiny exception we leave for a group of people undermines the work we’ve done and continue to do making things fair for people, for example the GLBT community. We should be challenging all words being used offensively, even if we don’t identify. I mean, Hell, our Allies do it.
YAY Drewski!!!
Ain’t it the truth?!
Somebody calls me a fag and I say thank you! or You betcha! or And YOU are the OTHER choice?
I’m a fag. I’m queer. I’m a homo and a cocksucker.
Just like I’m big and fat and ugly.
You cannot insult me simply reciting to me what I am.
If so, then I must think what I am is insulting…and I don’t.
I’m a big fat ugly strong hairy Daddy bear cocksucker faggot queer.
And thank the goddess every day for it all.
Hey Drewski,
You lost me dude.
I LOVE watching UFC but I don’t think any of those kids are boneheads.
As much as I enjoy the matches, the best part for me is when the match is over, these boys are expressive as hell about how they feel about each other.
They hug each other, hold each other’s heads, kiss, rub backs and shoulders.
Has nothing to do with whether they’d like to f*ck than fight the guy–it has to do with the fact that they are feeling, caring guys who know how hard the other guy worked and how hard it is to lose–or win.
These guys cry if they win and when they lose or another guy wins or loses.
That’s an emotional connection. And I love seeing it.
Don’t get me wrong, the dry-humping that goes on during the matches is pretty cool too.
Hot boys! It would be kind of interesting to know who’s taking the conflict humping to a more consensual mode outside of the ring.
I’m gay, out, totally happy with my sexuality, and I have zero issues with Dana White using “that” word, especially considering that he explained what he did and that it was not meant as an offense towards gays. I remember when Gov. Schwarzenegger used the term “girly men”, and some of you got so damn upset about it. Give it a break, quit being “girly men” and learn to get a backbone. The man was NOT demeaning you, regardless of what your “boo boo” and overly sensitive feelings want to call it. So many of you want to be considered indifferent than everyone else, yet you alienize yourself over words/comments? WTF!
Homophobia is like the Hydra; you cut off one head and it grows another! It needs to be speared through the heart to kill it and that means constantly fighting back until it (they) are too tired to fight back!