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		<title>By: Sean Martin</title>
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		<dc:creator>Sean Martin</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 30 Nov 2008 16:30:15 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>&gt;&gt; &quot;As a GAy man in California, it seems clear to me that California has already given us all the rights the State can&quot;

Really. Sorry, wrong answer. Next contestant, please.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>&gt;&gt; &#8220;As a GAy man in California, it seems clear to me that California has already given us all the rights the State can&#8221;</p>
<p>Really. Sorry, wrong answer. Next contestant, please.</p>
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		<title>By: Shane</title>
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		<dc:creator>Shane</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 30 Nov 2008 16:26:26 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Sam and Eva are Mormons. Sam acts like he is a fellow gay, but &#039;gay&#039; people don&#039;t use the word &#039;choice&#039; cuz we know better. So Sam is trying to spread an idiot opinion on the forum when we all can smell a rat.

Also, Sam is most likely affiliated with some Conservative Congressman or Mega-Church Preacher who hates himself cuz he won&#039;t follow his natural feelings of being attracted to the same-sex and has to use self-hating language to help himself feel better that he is trying to peel away his true inner feelings. Yet Sam craves for a man at night so he won&#039;t be alone.

Any of this ring a bell Sammy Boy ?</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Sam and Eva are Mormons. Sam acts like he is a fellow gay, but &#8216;gay&#8217; people don&#8217;t use the word &#8216;choice&#8217; cuz we know better. So Sam is trying to spread an idiot opinion on the forum when we all can smell a rat.</p>
<p>Also, Sam is most likely affiliated with some Conservative Congressman or Mega-Church Preacher who hates himself cuz he won&#8217;t follow his natural feelings of being attracted to the same-sex and has to use self-hating language to help himself feel better that he is trying to peel away his true inner feelings. Yet Sam craves for a man at night so he won&#8217;t be alone.</p>
<p>Any of this ring a bell Sammy Boy ?</p>
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		<title>By: Tim</title>
		<link>http://www.365gay.com/living/prop-8-what-went-wrong/comment-page-5/#comment-33048</link>
		<dc:creator>Tim</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 30 Nov 2008 00:16:56 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Very good reporting in this. There has long been a frightening and puzzling complacency among LGBTs. Before it could be attributed to fear of being out. Now, it must just be laziness or selfishness. If I had money to burn I would donate to CA&#039;s repeal 8 cause. However, I do not, and I live in MD where we are fighting our own battle. CA&#039;s LGBTs need to start fighting for their own rights in a serious and compelling way. One argument that hasn&#039;t caught much attention is &quot;lifestyle choice.&quot; Do opponents of gay marriage believe they could turn gay just by casually chosing. What does that say about their own sexual identity? Do opponents of gay marriage support state funding for sex change operations? If not, then they are hypocritically making their argument impossible.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Very good reporting in this. There has long been a frightening and puzzling complacency among LGBTs. Before it could be attributed to fear of being out. Now, it must just be laziness or selfishness. If I had money to burn I would donate to CA&#8217;s repeal 8 cause. However, I do not, and I live in MD where we are fighting our own battle. CA&#8217;s LGBTs need to start fighting for their own rights in a serious and compelling way. One argument that hasn&#8217;t caught much attention is &#8220;lifestyle choice.&#8221; Do opponents of gay marriage believe they could turn gay just by casually chosing. What does that say about their own sexual identity? Do opponents of gay marriage support state funding for sex change operations? If not, then they are hypocritically making their argument impossible.</p>
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		<title>By: Trace</title>
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		<dc:creator>Trace</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 29 Nov 2008 11:58:42 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>All Adult Lifestyles are a choice? What kind of crazy talk is that? I don&#039;t know any gay or str8 person that &quot;chooses&quot; to be gay or str8.  So Eva, tell us about how you&#039;ve chosen your &quot;lifestyle.&quot;</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>All Adult Lifestyles are a choice? What kind of crazy talk is that? I don&#8217;t know any gay or str8 person that &#8220;chooses&#8221; to be gay or str8.  So Eva, tell us about how you&#8217;ve chosen your &#8220;lifestyle.&#8221;</p>
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		<title>By: drewski</title>
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		<dc:creator>drewski</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 29 Nov 2008 09:33:40 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>So many ringers, so little time.  Eva, did you take pies to each of your sister-wives?  And how has the weather been down there in Cedar City--or is it St George?</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>So many ringers, so little time.  Eva, did you take pies to each of your sister-wives?  And how has the weather been down there in Cedar City&#8211;or is it St George?</p>
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		<title>By: Eva</title>
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		<dc:creator>Eva</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 29 Nov 2008 05:09:38 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Thank you Sam for everything you said.Plant or not You are so right. All adult lifestyles are a choice.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Thank you Sam for everything you said.Plant or not You are so right. All adult lifestyles are a choice.</p>
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		<title>By: Trace</title>
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		<dc:creator>Trace</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 28 Nov 2008 23:15:38 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Sam? You&#039;re gay?  Sound like a plant to me.  I&#039;m not sure I&#039;ve ever heard a gay man call being gay &quot;an adult sexual lifestyle choice.&quot;

Oh My Gawd!  Did that sound like blacksteel?</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Sam? You&#8217;re gay?  Sound like a plant to me.  I&#8217;m not sure I&#8217;ve ever heard a gay man call being gay &#8220;an adult sexual lifestyle choice.&#8221;</p>
<p>Oh My Gawd!  Did that sound like blacksteel?</p>
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		<title>By: Todd</title>
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		<dc:creator>Todd</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 28 Nov 2008 23:09:53 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>RJLigier,
&quot;Do you honestly believe that the plethora of nationalities within CA does not have to competence to ascertain whether they believe LGBT behavior is innate or learned?&quot;

Yes.

&quot;That’s the height of narcissistically hostile behavior toward individuals that are not neurotic and recognize the difference between neuroses and immutable characteristics.&quot;

No it&#039;s not. Think of it this way:

Is religious practice and belief immutable? No, it&#039;s not.

Is following the teachings of Christ or Muhammed immutable or innate?
No, it&#039;s not.

Does that therefore mean a particular religious belief and its practice should not be protected as a fundamental right since it is not immutable and/or innate?

See the problem with that kind of argument regarding human rights?

Look at another example involving interracial marriages:

Is it immutable and/or innate for a black person to CHOOSE to marry a white person instead of a black person?

Is marriage immutable or innate itself? Considering how the definition of marriage has changed throughout history and how people divorce and re-marry all the time or choose not to marry at all - I think you would have to say that marriage itself is not immutable nor is it innate.


See what happens when you start to argue the basis for human rights like that? 
Now you tell me how many religious people who argue that homosexuality should not be treated equally regarding civil rights because they believe it is a choice would also support religion being treated the same way, since any particular religious belief and its practice is itself obviously a choice?

Now read again your qout at the beginning of this post..</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>RJLigier,<br />
&#8220;Do you honestly believe that the plethora of nationalities within CA does not have to competence to ascertain whether they believe LGBT behavior is innate or learned?&#8221;</p>
<p>Yes.</p>
<p>&#8220;That’s the height of narcissistically hostile behavior toward individuals that are not neurotic and recognize the difference between neuroses and immutable characteristics.&#8221;</p>
<p>No it&#8217;s not. Think of it this way:</p>
<p>Is religious practice and belief immutable? No, it&#8217;s not.</p>
<p>Is following the teachings of Christ or Muhammed immutable or innate?<br />
No, it&#8217;s not.</p>
<p>Does that therefore mean a particular religious belief and its practice should not be protected as a fundamental right since it is not immutable and/or innate?</p>
<p>See the problem with that kind of argument regarding human rights?</p>
<p>Look at another example involving interracial marriages:</p>
<p>Is it immutable and/or innate for a black person to CHOOSE to marry a white person instead of a black person?</p>
<p>Is marriage immutable or innate itself? Considering how the definition of marriage has changed throughout history and how people divorce and re-marry all the time or choose not to marry at all &#8211; I think you would have to say that marriage itself is not immutable nor is it innate.</p>
<p>See what happens when you start to argue the basis for human rights like that?<br />
Now you tell me how many religious people who argue that homosexuality should not be treated equally regarding civil rights because they believe it is a choice would also support religion being treated the same way, since any particular religious belief and its practice is itself obviously a choice?</p>
<p>Now read again your qout at the beginning of this post..</p>
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		<title>By: TANK</title>
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		<dc:creator>TANK</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 28 Nov 2008 22:51:08 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>LOL!  What&#039;s with &quot;educating&quot; this sam breeder?  Ignore things like that; there&#039;s no hope for them.  Swear to GAD, some people just like being outraged by trolling idiots.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>LOL!  What&#8217;s with &#8220;educating&#8221; this sam breeder?  Ignore things like that; there&#8217;s no hope for them.  Swear to GAD, some people just like being outraged by trolling idiots.</p>
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		<title>By: Todd</title>
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		<dc:creator>Todd</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 28 Nov 2008 22:32:30 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Sam,

First of all, the term marriage is not a religious term, it&#039;s not owned by anyone. It&#039;s wrong to allow religion to &#039;own&#039; it out of bigotry, simple.

Secondly you said, &quot;What happened to the tollerance that we DEMAND, is not the other side allowed the same tollerance?&quot;

The other side is not being tolerant by voting to ban gays from being able to marry. Would you be tolerant of blacks by voting to ban blacks from marrying whites? No, of course not. The same applies to gay marriage - it doesn&#039;t matter WHY or HOW they justify being intolerant, it is still being intolerant.

Gay aren&#039;t protesting to make straight marriages illegal or protesting to make religion illegal. Gay people are protesting the fact that other people voted to make them less, to have TAKEN AWAY their legal right to marry.

If the same thing had happen to straight people they would be protesting as well.

Don&#039;t forget that what happened in California was that the right to marry for gay people was taken away. It was declared a fundamental right for gay people to have - this has not happened anywhere else in the country.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Sam,</p>
<p>First of all, the term marriage is not a religious term, it&#8217;s not owned by anyone. It&#8217;s wrong to allow religion to &#8216;own&#8217; it out of bigotry, simple.</p>
<p>Secondly you said, &#8220;What happened to the tollerance that we DEMAND, is not the other side allowed the same tollerance?&#8221;</p>
<p>The other side is not being tolerant by voting to ban gays from being able to marry. Would you be tolerant of blacks by voting to ban blacks from marrying whites? No, of course not. The same applies to gay marriage &#8211; it doesn&#8217;t matter WHY or HOW they justify being intolerant, it is still being intolerant.</p>
<p>Gay aren&#8217;t protesting to make straight marriages illegal or protesting to make religion illegal. Gay people are protesting the fact that other people voted to make them less, to have TAKEN AWAY their legal right to marry.</p>
<p>If the same thing had happen to straight people they would be protesting as well.</p>
<p>Don&#8217;t forget that what happened in California was that the right to marry for gay people was taken away. It was declared a fundamental right for gay people to have &#8211; this has not happened anywhere else in the country.</p>
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