November 8th, 2009
 

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Hallmark taps in to gay wedding market


(Portland, Oregon) Most states don’t recognize gay marriage – but now Hallmark does.

The nation’s largest greeting card company is rolling out same-sex wedding cards – featuring two tuxedos, overlapping hearts or intertwined flowers, with best wishes inside. “Two hearts. One promise,” one says.

Hallmark added the cards after California joined Massachusetts as the only U.S. states with legal gay marriage. A handful of other states have recognized same-sex civil unions.

The language inside the cards is neutral, with no mention of wedding or marriage, making them also suitable for a commitment ceremony. Hallmark says the move is a response to consumer demand, not any political pressure.

“It’s our goal to be as relevant as possible to as many people as we can,” Hallmark spokeswoman Sarah Gronberg Kolell said.

Hallmark’s largest competitor, American Greetings Corp., has no plans to enter the market, saying its current offerings are general enough to speak to a lot of different relationships.

Hallmark started offering “coming out” cards last year, and the four designs of same-sex marriage cards are being gradually released this summer and will be widely available by next year. No sales figures were available yet.

“When I have shopped for situations like babies or weddings for gay friends I have good luck in quirky stores,” said Kathryn Hamm, president of the Web site gayweddings.com.

“But if you are just in a generic store … the bride and groom symbol or words are in most cards,” she said. “It becomes difficult to find some that are neutral but have some style.”

The Williams Institute at the UCLA School of Law estimates that more than 85,000 same-sex couples in the United States have entered into a legal relationship since 1997, when Hawaii started offering some legal benefits to same-sex partners.

It estimates nearly 120,000 more couples will marry in California during the next three years – and that means millions of potential dollars for all sorts of wedding-industry businesses.

Hallmark, known more for its Midwest mores than progressive greetings, has added a wider variety lately. It now offers cards for difficulty getting pregnant or going through rehab.

It pulled a controversial card that featured the word “queer” in the punch line after it was criticized by some customers and gay magazine The Advocate last year. At any given time, Hallmark has 200 different wedding cards on the market, including some catering to interracial or inter-religious marriages and blended families.

The Greeting Card Association, a trade group, says it does not track how many companies provide same-sex cards but believes the number is expanding.

“The fact that you have someone like Hallmark going into that niche shows it’s growing and signals a trend,” said Barbara Miller, a spokeswoman for the association.

Rob Fortier, an independent card maker who runs his company, Paper Words, out of New York, added same-sex wedding cards to his mix after thinking about what he would want to receive.

“A lot of people think a gay greeting card needs a rainbow on it,” Fortier said. “I don’t want that.”

But for some time, it was difficult to even find the words for what anyone wanted to say, he said.

His first card poked fun at the challenge. On the outside it featured lines that had been scratched out: “Congratulations on being committed!”, “Congratulations on being unionized!” and, finally, “Congratulations on being domestically partnered!” The inside wished the couple congratulations on choosing to be together forever.

“It really comes down to language,” he said.

John Stark, one of the three founders of Three Way Design in Boston, which makes gay-themed cards for occasions from adoption to weddings, has several new designs sketched out and ready.

But he has hesitated adding more wedding cards to his mix until after the November election, when California voters will decide a constitutional amendment that would again limit marriage to a man and a woman in the state.

“What is scary is to produce a marriage line and then November comes and it’s recalled, then we have thousands of dollars of inventory waiting,” he said.

The gay-friendly business can be challenging, companies said.

Hamm said although she has found many vendors willing to work with her company, some have asked to be removed from the Web site because of hate mail or some other backlash.

Hallmark says all of its stores can choose whether they want to add the latest offerings.


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  • Bob Said: August 21st, 2008 at 10:32 am
    • Interesting how companies like Hallmark have started to tap into the Gay dollars only after California legalized same-sex marriage. Massachusetts has allowed this for how many years now???

  • Josh Said: August 21st, 2008 at 4:14 pm
    • I bet so called ‘evangelical christians’ will take it upon themselves to promote there twisted version of ‘truth’ and proceed to boycott hallmark.

      The shear stupidity and ignorance of some people is mind boggling to say the least…

  • Michael Said: August 21st, 2008 at 5:04 pm
    • the so-called American Family Association has alarted their readership of Hallmark card marketing the gay wedding cards and I INTEND TO KEEP BUYIHG THEM FROM MY LOCAL STORE even if I don’t need them right away.

      Let’s do that for a while so that Hallmark will be less inclined to listen to the boycott-threateners and antigay bullies at the so-called “American” “Family” “Association”.

      The antigays are fond of using quotation marks to ridicule gay people like in homosexual “marriage” > We are not gays to them we are always refered to by them by the clinical term “homosexuals” or “homosexual” to mean a gay person or describe something “gay” as “homosexual”

  • Chris Sullivan Said: August 21st, 2008 at 5:27 pm
    • Yes, I have noticed that they put the word marriage in quotes when referencing gay marriage. A lot of media outlets did the same thing for awhile but its less prevalent now. I think we should all put the words – family – and – right – in quotes when refering to the anti-gay and religiously controlled organizations or political affiliations… now it should be Focus on the “Family” – and the Religious “Right” – the American “Family” Association etc. etc.

      I could have set a stopwatch on the reaction to Hallmarks move by the AFA – who are a big bunch of assholes to begin with anwyay.

  • David Said: August 22nd, 2008 at 8:34 am
    • This truly is a “Hallmark moment”! Good on them for reaching out to all people.

  • Ryan Said: August 22nd, 2008 at 8:10 pm
    • I work at a corporate Hallmark store and was very happy when this announcement was made, however a day after the press release and people are already going nuts! I had a man call my store today and tell me that he would no longer shop at Hallmark and that he and his church buddies would be boycotting all Hallmarks in our area. He said he couldn’t bring his children into the store and let them see “sodomites”. I told him what to do and where to go and then hung up on him =)

  • Father Raymond Clark Said: August 22nd, 2008 at 8:46 pm
    • I hate to be the one to tell that fundy that his kids have already seen “sodomites” … as the old Anglican hymn says, “in church, or in trains, or in shops, or at tea, for the *saints* of God are just folk like me, and I mean to be one too.”

      Father Raymond
      Superior (retired)
      Community of the Resurrection
      San Diego CA USA

  • Marylin Said: August 22nd, 2008 at 9:43 pm
    • Bob,
      Maybe these companies either didn’t realize that the time had come, sure Ryan at his Hallmark store finds that there is still a lot of very miserable folks like that father who raised cain over the phone with him who oppose gay progress of any kind, but hey maybe Hallmark and other companies were holding back until our relationships were made legal and with the M word. Could be they wouldn’t acknowledge gay relationships when they were still not legal just in case. Now that, MA and CA have gay marriage, I just bet NJ will be the next state, likely it would be a midAtlantic or northeast state. Maryland might be a future marriage state, NJ has a gay-friendly DEM governor, imagine he’d sign New Jersey gay marriage into state law making NJ the 3rd such state.

      So Hallmark has likely decided that the legal, social and political climate has sufficiently changed to make the marketing of the gay marriage cards in stores easier. Maybe it decided the time was now right.

 
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