Comments on: Daigle: A New York Minute http://www.365gay.com/blog/daigle-a-new-york-minute/ The daily news source for the gay, lesbian, bisexual and transgender community Sun, 29 Jan 2012 17:11:12 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.1.4 By: Warren http://www.365gay.com/blog/daigle-a-new-york-minute/comment-page-1/#comment-74098 Warren Wed, 07 Oct 2009 13:20:44 +0000 http://www.365gay.com/?p=9874#comment-74098 A very thought provoking piece you've put out here... Both your closing statements and your observations about the the strangers you encountered make me think of something I sometimes lose sight of: being in the moment. I believe that if you focus on conceptual matters that may or may not come to pass it is easy to lose sight and yourself in some distant prospect. However being in the moment allows you to propel yourself forward in a here and now productive way. And yes each day we are changed if we are actual participants in our destiny by that very effort. A very thought provoking piece you’ve put out here… Both your closing statements and your observations about the the strangers you encountered make me think of something I sometimes lose sight of: being in the moment.

I believe that if you focus on conceptual matters that may or may not come to pass it is easy to lose sight and yourself in some distant prospect. However being in the moment allows you to propel yourself forward in a here and now productive way. And yes each day we are changed if we are actual participants in our destiny by that very effort.

]]> By: bama-stu http://www.365gay.com/blog/daigle-a-new-york-minute/comment-page-1/#comment-74074 bama-stu Tue, 06 Oct 2009 23:18:08 +0000 http://www.365gay.com/?p=9874#comment-74074 Cody - first let me say how sorry I am for what you are going through right now. I can relate as my 12 1/2 relationship ended in January although not as amicably as it seems yours did. Since then, I've been questioning my past actions, my current actions, hell even my very existence. It is getting easier day-by-day ... but there are still times when, well I'm sure we all know! Through it all I have learnt that I have more friends than I thought I did, although some I thought were friends turned out not to be; I've learnt that I am the most important person in my life, not somone else; and that I have to be happy with myself. I want you to know that your words are helping me a great deal as I go through this journey, as you seem to be able to verbalize what I am feeling/have felt and, until know, did not know how to put into words. Thank you Cody – first let me say how sorry I am for what you are going through right now. I can relate as my 12 1/2 relationship ended in January although not as amicably as it seems yours did. Since then, I’ve been questioning my past actions, my current actions, hell even my very existence. It is getting easier day-by-day … but there are still times when, well I’m sure we all know!
Through it all I have learnt that I have more friends than I thought I did, although some I thought were friends turned out not to be; I’ve learnt that I am the most important person in my life, not somone else; and that I have to be happy with myself.
I want you to know that your words are helping me a great deal as I go through this journey, as you seem to be able to verbalize what I am feeling/have felt and, until know, did not know how to put into words.
Thank you

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